Ok, so we've been dating for about a year now, talked for 3 months prior to that, a few weeks ago I went to his home for the first time and I felt like that's where I should be and ever since I've been home I haven't been exactly happy. I see him quite often as he's a F/A so maybe around once a month, but to us it's just not enough. I have 2 more semesters of school left and I can easily complete them online and fly back and forth as needed. I don't have a job...actually I pretty much don't have anything at home...so it'd be easy for me to just up and leave. Now the question is...would it be too soon for all this? I just don't know. In my heart I feel like it's the right thing to do. Either way if I didn't do it now I did plan on visiting during my spring break week, during my summer break, and then officially moving once schooling is completed in December...I just think I can't wait any longer.
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This sounds like a discussion the two of you need to have. Who would pay for you to fly back and forth if you don't have a job? Are you expecting him to support you if you move there? I think there is definitely a lot you need to need to discuss and plan before any definite decisions are made. Hearts are great and they do the feeling for you but don't forget to use your mind in all of this too.Originally posted by fltoaz View PostTo those who dream, nothing is ever far away.
Distance is to love as wind is to fire. It blows out the little ones and fans the big ones.
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He's a F/A so flying would be free for me... We've already discussed for what's going to happen when I originally planned on moving there in Dec 2016. I do have enough money saved up that I could live comfortably for about 4 months. It wouldn't take too long for me to find a job in my field at all. So it'a not like it's all new to us, but more so is this the right time for us?Comment
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We can't tell you if it's the right time for you. You two have to decide that. However, if you have to pose the question online, I'm guessing it's probably not the right time.To those who dream, nothing is ever far away.
Distance is to love as wind is to fire. It blows out the little ones and fans the big ones.
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I guess I just wanted to have some input. I will be talking to him tonight and will definitely be bringing this up to him as a serious topic because we have been discussing it here and there ever since I came. I just can't with my family (personal reasons) and he's always been my go to person ever since we met.Comment
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You essentially can close the distance whenever it's right for you two, but it has to be right for BOTH of you. Would you be living together if you closed the distance? Would he be supporting you if you moved now until you graduate? Based off of your post, I think that it makes the most sense for you to graduate and then make the move when you know that you will be able to support yourself soon. But again, that's my opinion and frankly, it's pretty irrelevant because I'm not you. Best of luck to you!Comment
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Yes, we would live together if we closed the distance at his house. For now, this is what I have decided is to complete this coming semester online and get a job, that way I can find myself. I would be able to visit him often if I wanted to. For now our plans are still on hold with how we wanted it to be originally.Comment
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