My details are in the Introduction forum under "WA and CA"
So we had "the Talk" and we are both very much in favor of her moving to my part of the country. There is a mountain of challenges though!
I've envisioned a couple of scenarios:
This summer she gets a summer job in my area (her main career is High school and elementary education) , while her children are with their father. She has a part time Job with a chain of stores, and the local owner, a friend of mine, would hire her. She would stay with me, and hopefully would get a short term tenant for her house. Perhaps she could start credentialling to become a certificated teacher as well.
I'm a little conflicted whether I can wait another year for her son to finish his high school career.
She wants to become a teacher and get her Masters. It remains to be seen what the financial implications of that are.
Ideally We both would like her to be independent and have her own place, for a year or two. Given the local rental market, that is a tall order.
Thoughts about what I can do to aid in this?
So we had "the Talk" and we are both very much in favor of her moving to my part of the country. There is a mountain of challenges though!
- Kids
- Her eldest will graduate from High school this Summer. Collegebound. Most likely in WA state. Her youngest will be a senior in high school next Fall. They visit their father here in CA each Summer and Spring Break and alternate Thanksgiving and Christmas
- While I'd love to have her here as soon as her eldest graduates, she feels her son should have his Senior year at the school he has attended all this time.
- Career
- She works as a long term Substitute teacher. If she wants a full time Job with benefits, She needs to do the classroom work to get a single subject credential. She has a background in fitness and training but has burned out on that.
- Home. She owns her home and wants to keep it as a rental property when she moves. Going to need some upgrades, which will require refinancing
- Car- Older model perhaps replace with refinance cash out?
- Cost of Living Is approx. 25% higher, and Salaries, are on average, 13% higher in my area of CA .
- Other Family: Mother, and her brother live in her current town, nearby. Two of her sisters live 140 miles away from my home. Her remarried ex-husband /Father of her children Lives 60 miles from me. Her kids spend summers with him, and alternate major holidays.
I've envisioned a couple of scenarios:
This summer she gets a summer job in my area (her main career is High school and elementary education) , while her children are with their father. She has a part time Job with a chain of stores, and the local owner, a friend of mine, would hire her. She would stay with me, and hopefully would get a short term tenant for her house. Perhaps she could start credentialling to become a certificated teacher as well.
I'm a little conflicted whether I can wait another year for her son to finish his high school career.
She wants to become a teacher and get her Masters. It remains to be seen what the financial implications of that are.
Ideally We both would like her to be independent and have her own place, for a year or two. Given the local rental market, that is a tall order.
Thoughts about what I can do to aid in this?
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