Hi everybody!
My boyfriend and I closed the distance 10 months ago. He is american and live with me in France now.
He is studying 2 hours away from our house. He has one sport that he usually do on weekends. I have my family/friends/leisures here, as I lived here since forever.
And sometimes, it makes me feel bad.
I feel bad when I have to leave him at night when I do my leisure, I feel bad when I want to do stuffs only with friends on weekends (like going to a party and sleep by one of my friend for example). Sometimes I just want to be with my girl friends. It's normal, it's healthy, I guess. But in our situation, it's complicated. It's not like he can call a friend and go out: They live either 2 hours by the train minimum (school friends) or at home (miles away).
I don't really know what to do. I don't know really know what sounds right. If I was in his country and he was leaving for Saturday night and overnight, I would feel bad. But I need it sometimes.
If some of you were/are in this situation, please tell me how you dealt with it. I will take every advice.
Thank you!
My boyfriend and I closed the distance 10 months ago. He is american and live with me in France now.
He is studying 2 hours away from our house. He has one sport that he usually do on weekends. I have my family/friends/leisures here, as I lived here since forever.
And sometimes, it makes me feel bad.
I feel bad when I have to leave him at night when I do my leisure, I feel bad when I want to do stuffs only with friends on weekends (like going to a party and sleep by one of my friend for example). Sometimes I just want to be with my girl friends. It's normal, it's healthy, I guess. But in our situation, it's complicated. It's not like he can call a friend and go out: They live either 2 hours by the train minimum (school friends) or at home (miles away).
I don't really know what to do. I don't know really know what sounds right. If I was in his country and he was leaving for Saturday night and overnight, I would feel bad. But I need it sometimes.
If some of you were/are in this situation, please tell me how you dealt with it. I will take every advice.
Thank you!
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