Hello!
It's my first time writing a topic here, nice to meet you all! I'm Rosy and I'm in a LDR with a girl in France, while I'm in Italy.I'm 26 and she's 25. She is working, me not anymore, due to covid (I was a flight attendant).
We both knew each other in Germany. We have been dating for about 2 weeks before she left Germany to come back in France.
After our separation, we have been continuing our dating online, texting and videocalls.
We have been together almost a year, in which we saw each other 3 times.
After 10-11 months I started to think about where our relationship is going, what she wants from that, because since we dated, we never talked about anything serious, we just kept texting and planned trips to visit.
I always think about where this relationship is bringing us, and if our visions are the same, if we are on the same page regarding the "future", just to know, because this LDR is hard, I ve been putting too much effort. I don't want already a plan, but I'd like to know where we are going.
This is her first relationship and for me too.
We both live with our parwnts, but I can relocate and I've been studying French from the beginning.
What do you think about the serious talk? Should I wait a bit more? None of us want LD another 2 or 3 years.
It's my first time writing a topic here, nice to meet you all! I'm Rosy and I'm in a LDR with a girl in France, while I'm in Italy.I'm 26 and she's 25. She is working, me not anymore, due to covid (I was a flight attendant).
We both knew each other in Germany. We have been dating for about 2 weeks before she left Germany to come back in France.
After our separation, we have been continuing our dating online, texting and videocalls.
We have been together almost a year, in which we saw each other 3 times.
After 10-11 months I started to think about where our relationship is going, what she wants from that, because since we dated, we never talked about anything serious, we just kept texting and planned trips to visit.
I always think about where this relationship is bringing us, and if our visions are the same, if we are on the same page regarding the "future", just to know, because this LDR is hard, I ve been putting too much effort. I don't want already a plan, but I'd like to know where we are going.
This is her first relationship and for me too.
We both live with our parwnts, but I can relocate and I've been studying French from the beginning.
What do you think about the serious talk? Should I wait a bit more? None of us want LD another 2 or 3 years.
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