So good news! There's a good chance we'll be closing the distance October 1st! provided the rest of my paperwork goes through smoothly, I should be able to move back to the US at the end of September. This is exciting because before we were estimating it was going to take me at least until July 2012 to get back there...
Anyway after telling my SO about this I got some not so great news from him... he doesn't want to live together.
well he didn't say he didn't want to exactly, instead he said he didn't think think there was space for me at his apartment (this is true, his bedroom is already too small for him, there's no place there for my shoes) and he didn't think I'd be happy there (also true, I really don't mesh with his roommates, they're nice we're just really different in our living/life/partying styles and when I visit him there I feel really stressed out by their behavior sometimes).
I guess I'm just a little shocked because we lived together before I moved back to Canada. When I left he found a new place and new roommates, and signed a lease and stuff. But I guess I kind of thought when I was able to come back we would just go back to living together.
Am I over reacting? Has this happened to anyone else out there? I'm a little freaked out by this-- I know it's logical, but it kind of seems like we would be moving backwards, not forwards with separate spaces... Any advice would be amazing... I'm really stressed out about this.
Anyway after telling my SO about this I got some not so great news from him... he doesn't want to live together.
well he didn't say he didn't want to exactly, instead he said he didn't think think there was space for me at his apartment (this is true, his bedroom is already too small for him, there's no place there for my shoes) and he didn't think I'd be happy there (also true, I really don't mesh with his roommates, they're nice we're just really different in our living/life/partying styles and when I visit him there I feel really stressed out by their behavior sometimes).
I guess I'm just a little shocked because we lived together before I moved back to Canada. When I left he found a new place and new roommates, and signed a lease and stuff. But I guess I kind of thought when I was able to come back we would just go back to living together.
Am I over reacting? Has this happened to anyone else out there? I'm a little freaked out by this-- I know it's logical, but it kind of seems like we would be moving backwards, not forwards with separate spaces... Any advice would be amazing... I'm really stressed out about this.
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