Some Advice

[freedom2]

Very Sad.
Was planning to meet my long distance love this Sept He applied for a tourist visa and was denied
I sent invitation but I could not send a support document because I don't make enough money . We both were so upset
He lives in Romania I live in Kentucky Right now I feel so lonely I could use some advice Please I can't afford to visit at this point What do I do??

I originally posted this on closing the distance but no replies or it wasn't read
Please help if you can

[Sierra]

Give it some time, you both should save up some money so one of you can make the trip. Don't give up hope if you really love each other.

I found my boyfriend online about 3 years ago, I had feelings for him and tried to facilitate us meeting for over two years. Of course we weren't in love then, but that came after meeting him.

[Dziubka]

Well, what do you want us to say or do?
Neither him nor you have enough money for a visit right now, so you can't visit until one of you has enough money for a visit.
So the only way you can be able to see each other is, if you save up. Do you have a job? Can you get a second job? Sell things?

[Sierra]

You know, another thing, I have no idea how old you are, but when you're young saving a large amount of money to go to Europe, or even for him to come here is a huge task, but believe me, you can do it. It may be slower than you'd like but just keep putting it away. Instead of ordering a pizza with friends, buying a new video game or whatever, put those $20 away. They'll add up.

I started to save myself by taking an extra $20 (or taking $20 out of what I really needed) from the ATM and putting it in my savings account. Before I know it, not only have I cut back on my savings but I'm able to see my man when we want to.

It's hard work and I have to sacrifice, but for the man you love, isn't it worth it?

[freedom2]

Well In June 2012 we finally met in London on his Vacation oh it was so great I did get a second job and saved to money and went Now I feel so very happy It was the best time I had in my life now hes back in Romania We plan next year to apply for a fiance visa I hope it is approved we love each other so very much

[Romeo s Juliet]

aww thats great congrats hope the fiance visa process goes smoothly. you ll need lots of patience and lots of courage good luck

[freedom2]

Thank you we need all the prayers and support we can get