I sent him the Bold loft site & asked him if he would object if I were to buy him something from there, the long distance gifts, & he said only if you can afford it, that it's best to save as much as you can for the future! This says alot of our friendship, because he said he's not looking for a relationship right now, yet what he said hints how he really feels about me & that it's alot more than a friendship we have, i just have to be patient for him to define it, I believe he will soon.