I need some advide from you for valentine, thank you so much.

[Lala88]

Hi everybody.
Valentine is coming but i don't know what i should do for my bf. He's live in US and i'm Asian. We just started from 1 month ago, well, we never ever meet - of course. But its not problem, but we rarely talking and i feel he doesn't care about me enough. I said to him that i still cant trust him 100% then he said to me will make me trust him with time.
Sometime he made me feel uncertain of our feeling. By the way, i gave him a chance to change our relationship but he refused. When we were friends, he told me he too busy to get a gf when i advice he should find a gf around, he almost never required to send photos... have others like that so i think he is not deceptive.
Because of culture and language, i think. And we're the same age.
So i feel a bit confused that i should do anything for him on valentine's day or not? Although i dont really trust him and his feeling, but i'm a romantic girl I'm stupid or not if i make anything?
Someone can help me, plz give some advice. Thanks so much, best wish for everyone.

P/s: I'm sorry if my english is bad.

[R&R]

I wouldn't be too worried about Valentine's Day at this point. I'm a bit more concerned that a month into your relationship you have trust issues and you already feel like you aren't cared for. If you aren't happy with the relationship and feel like something is off, why feel the need to stay?

[randomnerd]

With so much up in the air, if you want to do something for him, how about draw something and send a picture of it? Send an e-card? I don't think you'd have to do anything that costs money or anything too big at this point.

[Lala88]

Thank you for reply, thank you so much.
Yep, i'm thinking about this relationship. As i said, when we're friends he told me that he have no free time to love and we also weren't spend a lot of time to talk together. But when we got relationship i feel its not fine to each other, LDR without talk it'll be get some trouble, same to we're only friendship.
I got some confused and i think i should stay to waiting on short-time, i'll know more about our relationship and decide later.
And, yep, i agree with you that i shouldn't too worry about valentine's day. I really lucky because you're here, thank you again.

[Lala88]

With so much up in the air, if you want to do something for him, how about draw something and send a picture of it? Send an e-card? I don't think you'd have to do anything that costs money or anything too big at this point.

Yep, thank you so much. I'll, i agree with you and i'll thinking about an e-card, its great idea for me.

[Redheart14]

With so much up in the air, if you want to do something for him, how about draw something and send a picture of it? Send an e-card? I don't think you'd have to do anything that costs money or anything too big at this point.

I agree with this