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    So glad to have found this site!

    Hi! I'm LA, I live in Utah. My fiance', Brian currently lives in Australia. We had our 1 year anniversary in August.

    Everyone asks how a girl from the states got hooked up with a guy from down under. It took me a long time to stop being bashful about answering that question, but at this point, I look them right in the eye and say, "eHarmony. Yes, I know, online dating seems crazy, but who am I to say how God wanted to introduce us?!?"

    After talking online for several months, he came to the states in May. I met him in Vegas, and we proceeded to drive across the country together. We figured if we could survive a 2 week road trip, it was truly meant to be! Turned out to be a perfect crash course in each other, and by the end, he proposed!

    The bad news is, since we now have to go thru the process of immigration, he was required to go back to Australia until he was approved for a fiance's visa. It has been 7 1/2 months. *sigh*

    Conducting this relationship long distance has been challenging, but not as strange as it may have seemed initially. We talk every day via online video, and I was glad to read the suggestions on this site; we already do a lot of them, but there are several other things I plan to bring up.

    Thank you for creating this place! It makes me feel like there are others who can actually relate with what Brian & I are dealing with. <3

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    Welcome to LFAD

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      #3
      Sounds like an exciting story of how you guys met! Welcome!

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        #4
        Welcome to the site!

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          #5
          Hello and Welcome to LFAD fellow Utahn




          Treasuretrooper <-- how I helped pay for some of my LDR expenses when I was in one.

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            #6
            What a neat story! I love reading cute stories like that ^^.
            Welcome to LFAD!
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            Began our story ~ July 1, 2007
            Our first LDR ~ August 2009
            Closed the distance ~ January 2011
            He joined the Air Force ~ January 1, 2013
            Our second LDR ~ January 2, 2013
            He proposed ~ July 4, 2013
            Our wedding day ~ December 30, 2014
            Closing the distance ~ Summer 2015

            Proud of my Airman!!


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              #7
              Thank you for the welcomes!

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                #8
                Wow. What a romantic story! Welcome. Im sure you will love the site and the people bc we are all going through the same thing....
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                Not to get clever
                but with you I see forever
                But whatever it is,
                Here's to you,
                I Love You Kid...


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                  #9
                  Originally posted by lonelyinlove View Post
                  Wow. What a romantic story! Welcome. Im sure you will love the site and the people bc we are all going through the same thing....
                  It really is nice to know we aren't doing this strange, unknown thing. When I tell people about our situation, there is often a pause and the inevitable question, "how does that work?" Trouble is, it is literally impossible to explain that it does work. And forget trying to make them understand how I'm positive we have become closer than we would have if we'd been dating, ya know, in the same city! You have to be creative in ways one doesn't imagine, and since the relationship is all communication, I feel like we've avoided some of the pitfalls that I've encountered in other relationships. While there are some distinct disadvantages...well, I guess I can only think of the one (DISTANCE!!) my fiance' and I are closer and more in love than I've ever experienced with someone I had dinner with on the weekends!

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                    #10
                    Welcome to LFAD, spero! I'm from the states and am dating someone from Australia too! yay, sameness.
                    Hate those "how does it work" questions, too, by the way. I know exactly where you're coming from

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                      #11
                      welcome to LFAD, i was super happy when i found it too

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                        #12
                        Welcome to the forums! I get the questions of how does it work too, and my SO and I both live in the states. I always just say it works like any other relationship. We talk to each other, we hang out, etc... *shrug* Anyways, hope you enjoy your time here!

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                          #13
                          Glad you found us too. Welcome!
                          Got together Jan 3, 2011~ Closed the Distance March 23, 2012~ Living Together Since June 19 2012~ Future TBD......

                          I miss you more than I ever could have believed; and I was prepared to miss you a good deal." ~ Vita Sackville-west

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                            #14
                            Welcome )
                            Close together or far apart, you're forever in my heart.

                            I love you soooo much Luke

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