I'm Chris, and I just made a decision to try and make a long distance relationship work.
I moved to Florida from New York last October and I started using an online dating website to meet women. That's how I met Danielle. we had our first date in january. I felt the spark as soon as I met her in person and after that I was madly in love with her. We were very serious for about three months, but shes a student and has a full time job that took up most of her time, which I completely understood. We already lived 45 minutes away so we were only able to see eachother once or twice a week, then only once a week, every two weeks, and then we would only talk on the phone about once a week. Then all of a sudden I wouldn't hear from her whatsoever. No calls, no texts, no facebook, nothing. I tried to be patient for about a month then I just told her I was done, I can't have a relationship with her voicemail.
Not too long after that I made the decision to move back home, my living situation and my job were extremely unsatisfying so I wanted to go back to where things made sense. Shortly before I was set to move she contacts me sort of explaining everything. She didn't tell me exactly what happened but just that she had a personal issue, she was in and out of the hospital for a month, unable to communicate with anyone. We are both still very much in love with eachother and I don't want to let her go. Unfortunatly she told me after it was too late, I had already sent most of my stuff back home, quit my job in Florida and gotten my job back in New York. She still wont tell me what happened and I dont want to force her. I tried to get my mother, who absolutly adores her, to convince her to move with me, but she's still in school for at least another year. I haven't even told her that I'd like to pursue an LDR, and I'm not sure how to do that.
I know it says not to ask for answers/solutions, but if anyone has any advice or tips I'd greatly appreciate it.
Thanks,
Chris D
I moved to Florida from New York last October and I started using an online dating website to meet women. That's how I met Danielle. we had our first date in january. I felt the spark as soon as I met her in person and after that I was madly in love with her. We were very serious for about three months, but shes a student and has a full time job that took up most of her time, which I completely understood. We already lived 45 minutes away so we were only able to see eachother once or twice a week, then only once a week, every two weeks, and then we would only talk on the phone about once a week. Then all of a sudden I wouldn't hear from her whatsoever. No calls, no texts, no facebook, nothing. I tried to be patient for about a month then I just told her I was done, I can't have a relationship with her voicemail.
Not too long after that I made the decision to move back home, my living situation and my job were extremely unsatisfying so I wanted to go back to where things made sense. Shortly before I was set to move she contacts me sort of explaining everything. She didn't tell me exactly what happened but just that she had a personal issue, she was in and out of the hospital for a month, unable to communicate with anyone. We are both still very much in love with eachother and I don't want to let her go. Unfortunatly she told me after it was too late, I had already sent most of my stuff back home, quit my job in Florida and gotten my job back in New York. She still wont tell me what happened and I dont want to force her. I tried to get my mother, who absolutly adores her, to convince her to move with me, but she's still in school for at least another year. I haven't even told her that I'd like to pursue an LDR, and I'm not sure how to do that.
I know it says not to ask for answers/solutions, but if anyone has any advice or tips I'd greatly appreciate it.
Thanks,
Chris D
Agreed!
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