Not only have I just entered into a LDR, the man I'm now dating was my ex for the last year. I have never been in a long distance relationship and when we were together we were living together for a year, he broke up with me, I moved out and moved away. We spent the first 4-6 months after the breakup in limited contact and saw each other once. That blew up in my face and I then went into no contact for 5-6 months. Now, about a year later, we began contacting each other again and he came to see me a few days ago. It was amazing. He told me he had never stopped loving me, he had missed me so much, I was his soulmate, he was sorry, he wanted to be a better 'man,' and that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. I melted. I agreed to give the relationship another try.
I haven't really heard from him since. I feel this isn't right. But I'm also conflicted because I struggle with codependency issues. He has responded to both of the texts I sent 'I love you' 'I love you too' and 'Miss you' 'Likewise ' Likewise?? Really?? Am I crazy??? I also sent him two short e-mails, one discussing my schedule for when I'd be available to visit him. I had heard no response. I have not attempted to call him. It has only been three days since I saw him but we've been apart for a year, he seemed really excited about this relationship. Now I feel exceedingly insecure (admittingly this is my problem, not his) but I can't seem to sort out what to do and how I should feel...
I haven't really heard from him since. I feel this isn't right. But I'm also conflicted because I struggle with codependency issues. He has responded to both of the texts I sent 'I love you' 'I love you too' and 'Miss you' 'Likewise ' Likewise?? Really?? Am I crazy??? I also sent him two short e-mails, one discussing my schedule for when I'd be available to visit him. I had heard no response. I have not attempted to call him. It has only been three days since I saw him but we've been apart for a year, he seemed really excited about this relationship. Now I feel exceedingly insecure (admittingly this is my problem, not his) but I can't seem to sort out what to do and how I should feel...
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