Hey everyone! Just signed up so thought I would introduce myself.
Im 21 and live in England having recently graduated! I've always been a guy who is happy in life, but my life has been completely transformed for the better this year by meeting the most amazing girl. During my dull study time, I procrastinated by visiting a chatroom, where I met a few chill people, one of which happened to be the girl I now want to spend the rest of my life with. It took a month of us being in there before we even said 'hey', which happened to be the best decision ive ever made! We chatted a lot, and I completely fell head over heels in love with her personality, and after a while we moved onto voice/cam chat (seeing her physical beauty only heightened how strongly I feel for her). For the past 5 months we literally talk all day, and have fallen completely in love with each other, deciding 3 months ago tell each other how we felt and have since started a LDR and haven't looked back.
Being with her makes me as happy as I could possibly be, and we both really feel that we've found the person we want to spend our lives with (Yes I realise that's a big thing to believe after 3 months! But it really is how we feel, and im not much looking to be judged on that ). I've found the girl who makes me happier than could be, and is literally perfect in almost every way. But of course, she happens to live 4,926 miles away (as well as 8 hours in time difference), which hits us both pretty hard at times. It doesn't help that ive got to be making my way into the world of work and she's off to College/University this year (her being 18, as ive realised I didn't state that lol), which will make it tough to spend the time I want with her, but thats unfortunately the way it is. I just feel blessed we met.
Due to the above, meeting each other hasn't happened yet and will prove difficult to do often (since flights are expensive as anything! Not to mention finding the few months I would want to spend there), and knowing the challenges we have to deal with to properly be together gets me down from time to time. But im patient and keep in mind the future we can have together if we make it happen. Her getting upset is harder to deal with, but we both want this so its just a matter of being patient. But we get to talk a lot right now and have planned ways we can talk for a few hours every day, with rough plans to visit each other being formed so we have the planning wheels set in motion at least.
Anyways, there's a bit about our story so far, sorry for the novel! Hope to stick around and talk to people going through the same thing!
Im 21 and live in England having recently graduated! I've always been a guy who is happy in life, but my life has been completely transformed for the better this year by meeting the most amazing girl. During my dull study time, I procrastinated by visiting a chatroom, where I met a few chill people, one of which happened to be the girl I now want to spend the rest of my life with. It took a month of us being in there before we even said 'hey', which happened to be the best decision ive ever made! We chatted a lot, and I completely fell head over heels in love with her personality, and after a while we moved onto voice/cam chat (seeing her physical beauty only heightened how strongly I feel for her). For the past 5 months we literally talk all day, and have fallen completely in love with each other, deciding 3 months ago tell each other how we felt and have since started a LDR and haven't looked back.
Being with her makes me as happy as I could possibly be, and we both really feel that we've found the person we want to spend our lives with (Yes I realise that's a big thing to believe after 3 months! But it really is how we feel, and im not much looking to be judged on that ). I've found the girl who makes me happier than could be, and is literally perfect in almost every way. But of course, she happens to live 4,926 miles away (as well as 8 hours in time difference), which hits us both pretty hard at times. It doesn't help that ive got to be making my way into the world of work and she's off to College/University this year (her being 18, as ive realised I didn't state that lol), which will make it tough to spend the time I want with her, but thats unfortunately the way it is. I just feel blessed we met.
Due to the above, meeting each other hasn't happened yet and will prove difficult to do often (since flights are expensive as anything! Not to mention finding the few months I would want to spend there), and knowing the challenges we have to deal with to properly be together gets me down from time to time. But im patient and keep in mind the future we can have together if we make it happen. Her getting upset is harder to deal with, but we both want this so its just a matter of being patient. But we get to talk a lot right now and have planned ways we can talk for a few hours every day, with rough plans to visit each other being formed so we have the planning wheels set in motion at least.
Anyways, there's a bit about our story so far, sorry for the novel! Hope to stick around and talk to people going through the same thing!
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