I'm new too.. and here's my story <3
I would like to share with you all, something I wrote on our 6 year anniversary -blush-
That moment of incomparable joy when you and your partner celebrate your 6 years of being together
Even after spending so much time together in a relationship and being friends before that for 1 year and 4 months I still feel that there's so much that I yet have to know about the guy to understand him better and love him better.
Most of the times I keep thinking of how different our personalities are from each other, me and Haris. We are like the exact opposites of each other but even after that, spending 24 hours without having to talk to him once seems like a freakishly difficult task.
I've heard people saying that common interests work best for your compatibility with your partner. I don't agree. Even though our interests are like two different poles of the Earth I realized that if scientists were to combine the two of us, they'd definitely get an ideal human being.
You know like; he likes black, I like blue, he's quiet, I'm loud, he's more into himself and I just have to be involved in people's lives. You get the idea right? If we were to consume each other up we'll make the perfect human being having all the qualities that one can want.
Being with him I was able to realize that no matter how much of a smart ass I think I am, he's smarter. Oh, yes he is he just doesn't flaunt it like I do. It's like if Picasso made a polka dot painting containing all the seven colors of rainbow and we both were there to give our views on it in public. I'd go up ahead and flaunt my worthless philosophy and show off my ability at how I noticed all the seven colors and what the painter is trying to express and everything and as I'll finish and wait for my audience to applaud for me.
Haris would nudge me from behind and whisper , "There's an eighth dot on Picasso's signature, you missed that baby."
And that would be my moment of pride and I'll mention it and show off how I noticed the secret dot that no one else did. And you know what the best part is? He'll let me take credit for it and then I'll get the best critic award that's the kind of guy he is and that's the kind of girl I am.
He's always been with me like a shadow, helping me out from the shit I get myself into and never asking for anything in return. He knows the clumsiness that I'm capable of and even after that he's willing to move with me to the stupid heights and risks I want to take in the form of dreams. And when I fail, even after he had warned me of it, I'd just cry and turn around. And there he'll be, with open arms ready to comfort me.
I don't think I have ever had the understanding with anyone that I have with him. When I'm down, excited, motivated, defeated, even after our contrast in personalities, he knows what I need. He knows me so well, even my family and best friends don't. It's like I attempt a test and do perfect in it and I show it to him at how I should receive 100% marks for it. He'll take one minute and point out that one error I made. And he knows where to look for it, he knew I'd miss that one certain point because that's the kind of chick I am and he knows the kind of chick that I am.
Even though our tastes in almost everything differs from each other I was able to realize (just last night might I say) that the roots of our interests are the same. He likes human biology, I do too (I'm just not too dedicated towards that interest), he likes music, I do too, he likes to express his feelings, I do too, he's a clean freak and gets annoyed if someone messes up his room, I AM TOO , he reads, I do too, he gets mad, I do too, he writes, I do too, he's all affectionate, I am too . It's just that the secondary parts of our interests that don't match.
He'd choose Daft Punk, I'd choose Linkin Park. He'd choose chocolate, I'll go for mint He keeps a virtual journal, I choose the traditional pen and paper which is also because of the fact that he's a technology freak and I'm not . He'd pick up a pencil and I'll take the ball point pen, he plays video games on computer while I go with consoles, he reads all good stuff on the internet, I stick with buying books. You get what I'm saying?
It's like all good stuff that I'm missing; he's there to complete it. He completes me and he's the most patient man I have ever met on this Earth. No man can compare him in his patience. He's the guy who changed my thinking on the male society.
I've always been this anti-male person that had conflicts with any male that was ever close to me, but this guy, with his love, loyalty, patience, respect, affection, words, understanding and just his presence was able to prove this to me, that not all guys are the same. Even when we were 'friends', we knew we weren't going to stay that way for long. We used to flirt so much it cracks us up on how stupid we were.
He's the mature guy who talks sense into me when I tell him I want to jump down that well and see what happens but he's also the guy who mimics the waitress's accent in the restaurant when she tells us our bill for the food at the counter and have me, her and the people around us stare at him.
Haris.. what would I ever do without you, love
and counting
That moment of incomparable joy when you and your partner celebrate your 6 years of being together
Alina <3 Haris
Even after spending so much time together in a relationship and being friends before that for 1 year and 4 months I still feel that there's so much that I yet have to know about the guy to understand him better and love him better.
Most of the times I keep thinking of how different our personalities are from each other, me and Haris. We are like the exact opposites of each other but even after that, spending 24 hours without having to talk to him once seems like a freakishly difficult task.
I've heard people saying that common interests work best for your compatibility with your partner. I don't agree. Even though our interests are like two different poles of the Earth I realized that if scientists were to combine the two of us, they'd definitely get an ideal human being.
You know like; he likes black, I like blue, he's quiet, I'm loud, he's more into himself and I just have to be involved in people's lives. You get the idea right? If we were to consume each other up we'll make the perfect human being having all the qualities that one can want.
Being with him I was able to realize that no matter how much of a smart ass I think I am, he's smarter. Oh, yes he is he just doesn't flaunt it like I do. It's like if Picasso made a polka dot painting containing all the seven colors of rainbow and we both were there to give our views on it in public. I'd go up ahead and flaunt my worthless philosophy and show off my ability at how I noticed all the seven colors and what the painter is trying to express and everything and as I'll finish and wait for my audience to applaud for me.
Haris would nudge me from behind and whisper , "There's an eighth dot on Picasso's signature, you missed that baby."
And that would be my moment of pride and I'll mention it and show off how I noticed the secret dot that no one else did. And you know what the best part is? He'll let me take credit for it and then I'll get the best critic award that's the kind of guy he is and that's the kind of girl I am.
He's always been with me like a shadow, helping me out from the shit I get myself into and never asking for anything in return. He knows the clumsiness that I'm capable of and even after that he's willing to move with me to the stupid heights and risks I want to take in the form of dreams. And when I fail, even after he had warned me of it, I'd just cry and turn around. And there he'll be, with open arms ready to comfort me.
I don't think I have ever had the understanding with anyone that I have with him. When I'm down, excited, motivated, defeated, even after our contrast in personalities, he knows what I need. He knows me so well, even my family and best friends don't. It's like I attempt a test and do perfect in it and I show it to him at how I should receive 100% marks for it. He'll take one minute and point out that one error I made. And he knows where to look for it, he knew I'd miss that one certain point because that's the kind of chick I am and he knows the kind of chick that I am.
Even though our tastes in almost everything differs from each other I was able to realize (just last night might I say) that the roots of our interests are the same. He likes human biology, I do too (I'm just not too dedicated towards that interest), he likes music, I do too, he likes to express his feelings, I do too, he's a clean freak and gets annoyed if someone messes up his room, I AM TOO , he reads, I do too, he gets mad, I do too, he writes, I do too, he's all affectionate, I am too . It's just that the secondary parts of our interests that don't match.
He'd choose Daft Punk, I'd choose Linkin Park. He'd choose chocolate, I'll go for mint He keeps a virtual journal, I choose the traditional pen and paper which is also because of the fact that he's a technology freak and I'm not . He'd pick up a pencil and I'll take the ball point pen, he plays video games on computer while I go with consoles, he reads all good stuff on the internet, I stick with buying books. You get what I'm saying?
It's like all good stuff that I'm missing; he's there to complete it. He completes me and he's the most patient man I have ever met on this Earth. No man can compare him in his patience. He's the guy who changed my thinking on the male society.
I've always been this anti-male person that had conflicts with any male that was ever close to me, but this guy, with his love, loyalty, patience, respect, affection, words, understanding and just his presence was able to prove this to me, that not all guys are the same. Even when we were 'friends', we knew we weren't going to stay that way for long. We used to flirt so much it cracks us up on how stupid we were.
He's the mature guy who talks sense into me when I tell him I want to jump down that well and see what happens but he's also the guy who mimics the waitress's accent in the restaurant when she tells us our bill for the food at the counter and have me, her and the people around us stare at him.
Haris.. what would I ever do without you, love
26 October 2006 - 26 October 2012
and counting
HisRaven
hehe thank you. And yeah we've been through a lot together <3
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