Hi! -again
Haha. I've been on a LONG hiatus from LFAD. My then boyfriend broke up with me, via YIM back in February '10. After he bought a plane ticket, spending in total $650 to fly out for Valentine's Day. Of course I was heartbroken because we made all these plans for me to move out there. But thank god I didn't. He started wearing down about 2 months before we ended it. I tried all the LDR games and continued to ask what was wrong, but he said everything was fine. Blah, blah. He started 'hanging' out with 'someone from class' and went to bars a lot more than he did. In the end, I found out he was dating the girl from class while he was still with me. He said he 'lost interest' and if I moved out there he wouldn't be able to 'experience bachelor life'. Really? Haha. IDK. I'm over it and haven't really talked to him anymore. He still tries to because he knows I'm moving to the west coast (close to where he is), but not for him!
But aside from bad news, I'm at a crossroads with my current interest. We're not dating, we met online and we hung out twice. It's hard to see him because of his hectic work schedule. He's in the Navy and works nights and days, can't get in contact with him unless he's off work. But he wants to sleep! Which is understandable. I just feel bad that he's really trying to make something work between us, but we don't really know where to go.
I found out I will be moving to Washington State in late September. With him being in the Navy he is going to have to reenlist in September. His first choice of a base is in Washington State also (not because of me). So we're hopeful that he does get to move out there so we could possibly start dating. And now I'm weary to talk about 'us' because of the uncertainty of his move. He says it seems promising, but I really don't know. If he did move he'd be 2 hours away (same for where we live now). So let's hope his schedule isn't as crazy and we get to spend more time together. But there is the other part of this ordeal, he's about to turn 21, I just turned 21 and I have a 2 year old. He seems young to want to date a single mom! I don't want to scare him now by telling him that I do expect more out of a relationship. Ever since I became I mom I'm not one to just date for the fling. I do want something more, but not without actually being with them. And we aren't even declared in a relationship.
So yeah, lot's of stuff. But I am hopeful and just need some more advice. I will be posting from now on! I love hearing everyone's stories and seeing your relationships grow!
Hope to talk to you all soon!
But aside from bad news, I'm at a crossroads with my current interest. We're not dating, we met online and we hung out twice. It's hard to see him because of his hectic work schedule. He's in the Navy and works nights and days, can't get in contact with him unless he's off work. But he wants to sleep! Which is understandable. I just feel bad that he's really trying to make something work between us, but we don't really know where to go.
I found out I will be moving to Washington State in late September. With him being in the Navy he is going to have to reenlist in September. His first choice of a base is in Washington State also (not because of me). So we're hopeful that he does get to move out there so we could possibly start dating. And now I'm weary to talk about 'us' because of the uncertainty of his move. He says it seems promising, but I really don't know. If he did move he'd be 2 hours away (same for where we live now). So let's hope his schedule isn't as crazy and we get to spend more time together. But there is the other part of this ordeal, he's about to turn 21, I just turned 21 and I have a 2 year old. He seems young to want to date a single mom! I don't want to scare him now by telling him that I do expect more out of a relationship. Ever since I became I mom I'm not one to just date for the fling. I do want something more, but not without actually being with them. And we aren't even declared in a relationship.
So yeah, lot's of stuff. But I am hopeful and just need some more advice. I will be posting from now on! I love hearing everyone's stories and seeing your relationships grow!
Hope to talk to you all soon!
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