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    Reactivation!

    Hello everyone.
    Some 'old' members may remember me from waay back when I first joined the forum with what I thought was the love of my life. Oh boy, was I wrong. The relationship was on and off but since I was in a few shorter and longer relationships, ALL of which were long distance at some stage.
    Then it changed.
    I fell in love, it was beautiful when we lived in the very same city, spending most of the time in one of our houses.
    8 months into relationship we jumped into 200kms distance relationship which to my definition is no LDR. Plus, with my past experience, seeing each other only on the weekends and studybreaks was perfectly fine. The relationship has been going strong and we applied to go to a study abroad program together. We wanted to go to melbourne as I am still very sentimental about the place and still want to live there in the end. Because of that, I was ready to kick him out to Ozland myself if he ever thinks of not going because of me.
    So he's off. I didn't get in. Instead, I'm going to USA/Canada in September. Next time we see each other is in December. I know it sounds amazing because we know exactly when and how we close the distance, which I thought was exactly the one piece missing previously. But it's not making the pain any easier. Damn.

    And IT.KILLS.ME. I found LFAD extremely helpful in my last relationship nd thats why I am turning back here for support and to be able to help people and shre my experiences.
    Looking forward to catching up with what's been happening on here.

    #2
    Hello from fellow Polish!

    I'm new in here so don't remember you but I's nice to meet you!
    “We're all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness — and call it love — true love.”
    ― Robert Fulghum, True Love

    Met UK 3.08.2012-5.08.12 ->UK 1.12.12-3.12.12->PL 8.02.13-16.02.13->PL 1.06.13-9.06.13->UK 3.08.13-17.08.13->UK 26.10.2013-02.11.2013->PL 30.11.2013-08.12.2013->PL 22.03.2014-29.03.2014->UK 31.05.2014-07.06.2014->PL 06.09.2014-13.09.13->UK 20.12.2014-03.01.2015
    Closed the distance >21.03.2015
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      #3
      I actually still remember you Welcome back!

      So you're going to move to Australia to be with him eventually?

      Być tam, zawsze tam, gdzie Ty.

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        #4
        He is 'only' there for four months, and I'm in Canada for four months. So the plan is that he comes visit me in Canada, then we graduate and then we both try to move to Melbourne to spend the rest of our lives there.

        It's just super weird because I discover really weird feelings, instead of being happy that he is discovering the country of my dreams and liking it so far, I find myself crying because he gets to live in Melbourne, meaning he gets to live my dream, that I could never get. Even though I tried so much harder than him... I feel like a horrible, selfish person. :/

        And I remember you too! Congrats on closing the distance finally. Poland or Germany is it?

        I'm glad to see more and more Polish here Hello, aniay! Loving the Dr.Seuss quote too!

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          #5
          So many oldies coming back, this is awesome! -^^- I came back not too long ago myself. Welcome back!!

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            #6
            Welcome back....

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              #7
              Welcome back!

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                #8
                Originally posted by aggie View Post
                then we graduate and then we both try to move to Melbourne to spend the rest of our lives there.

                It's just super weird because I discover really weird feelings, instead of being happy that he is discovering the country of my dreams and liking it so far, I find myself crying because he gets to live in Melbourne, meaning he gets to live my dream, that I could never get. Even though I tried so much harder than him... I feel like a horrible, selfish person. :/
                firstly, Welcome!

                I'm from Melbourne, Australia and my SO just recently moved here to close the distance. He loves it here. I'm just curious why you are so set on Melbourne? it is a great place yes, but it sounds like its been your dream - I don't think it's THAT amazing here, still has t's quirks/flaws
                Met Online: February 2009
                Feelings grew: January 2011
                First met in person: 4 April - 16 April 2011
                Officially together since: 4th of April 2011
                Second visit: 29 June - 1 August 2011
                Third visit: 28 September - 15 October 2011
                Fourth visit: 19 January - 25 February 2012
                Fifth visit: 24 March - 12 April 2012
                Sixth visit: 2 June - 7 July 2012
                Engaged: 1st of July 2012
                Seventh visit: 27 August - 23 September
                Visa lodged: 5th of November 2012
                Eighth visit: 8 December 2012 - 12 January 2013
                Visa granted: 8th of May 2013
                Hawaii: 19 May - 2 June 2013
                Closed the distance: 16th of July 2013

                Married my Englishman on the 4th of October 2013

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