Hi, I am new (obviously) and made an account here because I over analyze and worry and think way too much now. But i also have a lot of hope.
Long story short, we met unexpectedly in Las Vegas and immediately hit it off. I am from Seattle, he is from Sydney. We hung out for 2 days and then had to go home. He buys a plane ticket to see me 3 months later. Honeymoon phase for that 3 months. He finally visits for 2 weeks. He leaves, honeymoon stage over. -- For him anyway. I've felt a significant less amount of attempted communication from him. Maybe because he's comfortable i'm not sure. Alot less expression of feelings and lovey dovey ness. It makes me sad. And think alot. I wonder if he liked the mystery of it more, and now that he knows what it will be like, he is less interested. OR he is comfortable and because he thinks he "already has me" he doesnt have to try to woo me anymore. Anyways I am distraught. Trying to figure out a way to cope, and what words to say when we have this "talk" so i don't offend him or corner him. How to put out there what my needs are without seeming needy. Haha. I am such a mess.
Anyways hello!
Long story short, we met unexpectedly in Las Vegas and immediately hit it off. I am from Seattle, he is from Sydney. We hung out for 2 days and then had to go home. He buys a plane ticket to see me 3 months later. Honeymoon phase for that 3 months. He finally visits for 2 weeks. He leaves, honeymoon stage over. -- For him anyway. I've felt a significant less amount of attempted communication from him. Maybe because he's comfortable i'm not sure. Alot less expression of feelings and lovey dovey ness. It makes me sad. And think alot. I wonder if he liked the mystery of it more, and now that he knows what it will be like, he is less interested. OR he is comfortable and because he thinks he "already has me" he doesnt have to try to woo me anymore. Anyways I am distraught. Trying to figure out a way to cope, and what words to say when we have this "talk" so i don't offend him or corner him. How to put out there what my needs are without seeming needy. Haha. I am such a mess.
Anyways hello!
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