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    Im Here for HELP!!!

    Hello everyone, My name is Sarah. I am new on this site and im new with being in an LDR. On Dec 29th my BF and I will be together for a month. He lives 895 miles away. I live in NM and he lives in NV. It already has been tough not only is he my BF but he is about to be a baby daddy with his ex, so i can use some helpful friends! Thats why im here. And i would love to share my opinions! (:
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    Can'T do much but accept it.

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      #3
      Welcome to the forums, Sarah. I'm sure you'll find the help you need here. Good luck.

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        #4
        Hie and welcome,

        I am sure you can find ways to make it friendly for everyone involved. Please let ut know how things progress
        I made love to him only twice, she thought and looked at the man laying asleep beside her. And yet still it is as if we have been together forever, as if he has always known my life, my soul, my body, my light, my pain
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          #5
          Welcome to LFAD! If you have any questions, I got ya

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            #6
            Im ok with it and i accept the situation and him. The real issue is all that he is doing for the ex. Im not sure if i should or shouldnt be getting upset. Im understanding on most things. The baby momma doesnt work and so my bf is paying for her rent (i accept that because i want his son to have a good home) She doesnt have a car and my bf has 2, one is his work car because he travels so far, and than his daily truck, Baby mamas parents feel that he needs to give her the car. He said no he will sell it to her (im ok with him selling it to her). Now heres the killer part(well for me) She has yet to find out that he is MY bf. He hasnt told her because he works for her dad and the dad already threatend his job. So he's currently applying else where. & the other part why he wont is he is going to try for custody and i know that its a high chance that he wont get it but i dont want to be the reason that he doesnt get it. But with her not knowing about me, on FB she posts things like "True love is meant to be and one day we will get back together" Or she posts and will tag him in everything. And he never tells her to stop. Another thing is she will ask him to go over, and he will in a heart beat over something that could easily be a phone call conversation. Should i be worried?

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              #7
              Hi, welcome to LFAD You are in a difficult situation. I totally get, that you are upset of your bf being a lot around his ex, but then again, she is carrying his baby, so it is good thing he is interested. Maybe just talk to him and tell him about your feelings ...

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                #8
                Originally posted by DJsBabyGirl22 View Post
                Im ok with it and i accept the situation and him. The real issue is all that he is doing for the ex. Im not sure if i should or shouldnt be getting upset. Im understanding on most things. The baby momma doesnt work and so my bf is paying for her rent (i accept that because i want his son to have a good home) She doesnt have a car and my bf has 2, one is his work car because he travels so far, and than his daily truck, Baby mamas parents feel that he needs to give her the car. He said no he will sell it to her (im ok with him selling it to her). Now heres the killer part(well for me) She has yet to find out that he is MY bf. He hasnt told her because he works for her dad and the dad already threatend his job. So he's currently applying else where. & the other part why he wont is he is going to try for custody and i know that its a high chance that he wont get it but i dont want to be the reason that he doesnt get it. But with her not knowing about me, on FB she posts things like "True love is meant to be and one day we will get back together" Or she posts and will tag him in everything. And he never tells her to stop. Another thing is she will ask him to go over, and he will in a heart beat over something that could easily be a phone call conversation. Should i be worried?
                Get used to it. She's the mother of his baby. His baby is always going to come first and you are always going to come second. Sorry to be harsh, but it's the truth. He's going to do all the he can to stay on good terms with her because of his child. Either you can accept that or you can't.

                Welcome to LFAD
                "We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love " ~ Theodore Seuss Geisel.

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                  #9
                  Oh no i completely understand that the baby is going to come first and i want that 100%. I also want him and the mom to be on good terms as well as i want to and hope to be on civil terms. i just dont think that having each other on FB commenting and tagging each other on stuff that doesnt deal with the baby. and him going to her house for a conversation that could have been dealt with on the phone is necessary.

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                    #10
                    I can understand why you are going through some difficulty, I couldnt be with someone that kept me a secret regardless of the situation.

                    Welcome to the forums - I hope everything works out for the best for you
                    ~Shaunna~

                    *Distance isn't an obstacle when it comes to love, but rather a great reminder on just how strong true love can be*


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