i am new. just introducing myself. ive been in LDR before and they seemed fine but the guy was messing around on me. my BF now isnt the type, however he broke things off when we were living together because it was getting to us being at his mothers. shes pretty "my way or no way" and things just werent going too well.
RIGHT after he broke up with me she bought him a ticket 1500 miles from us! where his brother lives. who does that? he said he didnt even have time to think before she did it. he was angry with me and relapsed (hes a recovering addict) so he wasnt thinking straight. he was confused.
when i heard he was leaving i couldnt believe it.... the man i was with for almost 2 years couldnt be away from me for a couple hours and now hes moving away so quickly. we were apart 3 weeks or so and in that time he just hit ROCK bottom and ended up messing around with someone else...he feels horrible about it(technically) we were apart but i still had his heart. but it still hurts he'd jump in bed with someone else so quickly. i do get that this was only physical and not making love at all.
before his flight was due he postponed it and begged me for him to come see me. he told his mother he felt like he needed to come be with me and not move away. she flipped and changed his mind. but a day or so later he came to see me anyway, the day before his flight. we made up and i took him back. (hes just not the normal guy, he wouldnt have broken things off if not for being so impaired, when people like this are impaired they are like a total different person,....almost like possessed ya know? ) i know this is true as he was not himself AT ALL before the break up. our whole relationship he did everything for me and us. he didnt ever mess things up.
anyway, he did still go, because he felt an obligation to his mother. why? i dont know hes very respectful of his mother its just how he is and he didnt want to disappoint her....i dont think shed have let him forget how mch shes helped him with money if he hadnt at least tried it anyway. they have alot of money and she seems to use it to control them. he sees this.
anyway hes been gone a month but is coming home hopefully this month. he cant be away any longer=) i am worried he'll have second thoughts because when his mother finds out. but he says why should he give up the best thing in his life to make her happy=)
im 27 hes 24. besides this our relationship has been the best one I've ever had.
RIGHT after he broke up with me she bought him a ticket 1500 miles from us! where his brother lives. who does that? he said he didnt even have time to think before she did it. he was angry with me and relapsed (hes a recovering addict) so he wasnt thinking straight. he was confused.
when i heard he was leaving i couldnt believe it.... the man i was with for almost 2 years couldnt be away from me for a couple hours and now hes moving away so quickly. we were apart 3 weeks or so and in that time he just hit ROCK bottom and ended up messing around with someone else...he feels horrible about it(technically) we were apart but i still had his heart. but it still hurts he'd jump in bed with someone else so quickly. i do get that this was only physical and not making love at all.
before his flight was due he postponed it and begged me for him to come see me. he told his mother he felt like he needed to come be with me and not move away. she flipped and changed his mind. but a day or so later he came to see me anyway, the day before his flight. we made up and i took him back. (hes just not the normal guy, he wouldnt have broken things off if not for being so impaired, when people like this are impaired they are like a total different person,....almost like possessed ya know? ) i know this is true as he was not himself AT ALL before the break up. our whole relationship he did everything for me and us. he didnt ever mess things up.
anyway, he did still go, because he felt an obligation to his mother. why? i dont know hes very respectful of his mother its just how he is and he didnt want to disappoint her....i dont think shed have let him forget how mch shes helped him with money if he hadnt at least tried it anyway. they have alot of money and she seems to use it to control them. he sees this.
anyway hes been gone a month but is coming home hopefully this month. he cant be away any longer=) i am worried he'll have second thoughts because when his mother finds out. but he says why should he give up the best thing in his life to make her happy=)
im 27 hes 24. besides this our relationship has been the best one I've ever had.
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