Hey all - just introducing myself. Hoping to meet people in similar situation as mine of course. My SO & I has been officially together for just under 3 months but we've known each other for 13 years. We actually did have a LDR for about a year after we first met but technology wasn't quite the same back then so much harder to maintain! I was also pretty young - 18 when I met him, and he is 9 years older so that factored into our original break up. I'm in FL and he's in NH and we managed to stay friends for all those years, standing by and being there for each other throughout our respective other relationships and subsequent break ups. I convinced him to take a vacation down here a few months ago, when we were still just friends and about two hours in, we knew we weren't
We both each have one child, and careers and ties to our respective home states so we know eventually one of us will have to give in and make the move, but the current goal is three years so that his son can finish high school up north Hope that wasn't too much info - look forward to hearing from others who may be in a similar boat with children, careers, etc. which all make it a bit harder to end up in the same spot!

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