Here's my story:
Met someone 10 years ago. I was 18. He was 24. It was not the right time for us, I ended up getting manipulated into an abusive marriage for 4 years. After I left my Very abusive ex this guy and I hung out. The chemistry was so high. We had sex, did it a couple more other times. Then I went and got married again to someone else. The 2nd spouse and I are good friends but the chemistry just wasn't there and we have broken up, but we are still good friends though. Now I've reconnected with original guy. He has sinse moved across the country and started a career. We're planning on hanging out again asap(probably a few months cause long distance lol). I am dang curious if we are compatible outside the bedroom. But I'm overwhelmed with the possibility of a long distance relationship. I have a few kids. One that has particular needs and my current ex and I plan on living together to raise the kids. My recent ex is very understanding and encouraging of my new(old???lol) possible relationship. But. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ all I know is that even if my first ex hadn't been abusive my attraction to this guy is intense to the point it messes up my other relationship. I must figure this out and either end up in a relationship with him or get over him if he decides he's not into me... So that's me. And my head is spinning not being able to casually hang out. We aren't more then casual hook ups right now. And this long distance stuff makes it so much more then "it" is ready to be.
Met someone 10 years ago. I was 18. He was 24. It was not the right time for us, I ended up getting manipulated into an abusive marriage for 4 years. After I left my Very abusive ex this guy and I hung out. The chemistry was so high. We had sex, did it a couple more other times. Then I went and got married again to someone else. The 2nd spouse and I are good friends but the chemistry just wasn't there and we have broken up, but we are still good friends though. Now I've reconnected with original guy. He has sinse moved across the country and started a career. We're planning on hanging out again asap(probably a few months cause long distance lol). I am dang curious if we are compatible outside the bedroom. But I'm overwhelmed with the possibility of a long distance relationship. I have a few kids. One that has particular needs and my current ex and I plan on living together to raise the kids. My recent ex is very understanding and encouraging of my new(old???lol) possible relationship. But. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ all I know is that even if my first ex hadn't been abusive my attraction to this guy is intense to the point it messes up my other relationship. I must figure this out and either end up in a relationship with him or get over him if he decides he's not into me... So that's me. And my head is spinning not being able to casually hang out. We aren't more then casual hook ups right now. And this long distance stuff makes it so much more then "it" is ready to be.