Jazzy Saying Hi From New York!
Hello Everyone
I came across this website just recently and I'm glad I found it because I've been struggling a bit. This is honestly my first LDR and the fact that you guys are here brings me so much comfort because this LDR has been quite hard for us. We're not giving up though because we just love each other so much! I always swore I would never be in a long distance relationship because I just thought it would never work. But when you meet someone who is truly special and worth fighting for these beliefs go out the window.
So some story time..I met my boyfriend through a dating app just this past summer. We were actually both not looking for anything serious. After we matched, he messaged me and we spoke to each other for a couple of weeks before meeting. I was actually not even considering it. But I thought what the heck, this could be fun because he was only in New York for an internship until the end of the summer before he had to go back to school. Well, our first date was one of the greatest first dates ever and since that day we decided to just keep on hanging out everyday until he had to go back to Seattle. We truly enjoyed each other's company and we immediately started feeling the feels. So the day finally came that he had to go and we said our good-byes. I really wasn't expecting him to keep in touch but he did. We both knew that there was something special. We talked everyday since the day we met even while he was in China for a month visiting his family. That was most especially hard. We really realized then that this was real because we were both on different continents still longing for each other. This was when I decided I would go visit him in Seattle in early October and that's when we made it official! We will also meet again in December and I can not wait!
Even though we are so happy sometimes its just difficult you know? Another concern is that if he doesn't land a job here in the US within a year after graduation this upcoming May, he will have to return to China. We both agreed if that were the case, we would make it work. So far things are great and now that I have found this community, it will help me through those difficult moments!
I came across this website just recently and I'm glad I found it because I've been struggling a bit. This is honestly my first LDR and the fact that you guys are here brings me so much comfort because this LDR has been quite hard for us. We're not giving up though because we just love each other so much! I always swore I would never be in a long distance relationship because I just thought it would never work. But when you meet someone who is truly special and worth fighting for these beliefs go out the window.
So some story time..I met my boyfriend through a dating app just this past summer. We were actually both not looking for anything serious. After we matched, he messaged me and we spoke to each other for a couple of weeks before meeting. I was actually not even considering it. But I thought what the heck, this could be fun because he was only in New York for an internship until the end of the summer before he had to go back to school. Well, our first date was one of the greatest first dates ever and since that day we decided to just keep on hanging out everyday until he had to go back to Seattle. We truly enjoyed each other's company and we immediately started feeling the feels. So the day finally came that he had to go and we said our good-byes. I really wasn't expecting him to keep in touch but he did. We both knew that there was something special. We talked everyday since the day we met even while he was in China for a month visiting his family. That was most especially hard. We really realized then that this was real because we were both on different continents still longing for each other. This was when I decided I would go visit him in Seattle in early October and that's when we made it official! We will also meet again in December and I can not wait!
Even though we are so happy sometimes its just difficult you know? Another concern is that if he doesn't land a job here in the US within a year after graduation this upcoming May, he will have to return to China. We both agreed if that were the case, we would make it work. So far things are great and now that I have found this community, it will help me through those difficult moments!
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