I'v been lurking
Hello All
Lets see.... we met in a chat room. Neither of us can remember exactly when, best estimate is summer 2005. We were just IM friends. Sometimes lots of conversation, sometimes not so much. We dated other people, discussed life, vented, wiled away boredom. He truly became well, to me, one of my best friends. He knows more of my secrets, fears, worries, hopes and joys then my best friends do.
In 2009, I went through a yucky breakup. I leaned on him. At times I would even think, this isn't healthy. I was using him as a crutch. I hit the dating scene again. Just never felt the mental/emotional connection.
Last spring(2010) we grew closer and closer. We did the choosing to not date other people. Did tell him I loved him. and vice versa.
He is in the UK. I am in the states. He is 30, I am 34.
There are more facts and details. Concerns. Questions. I will get into them eventually.
Just wanted to say Hello!
Lets see.... we met in a chat room. Neither of us can remember exactly when, best estimate is summer 2005. We were just IM friends. Sometimes lots of conversation, sometimes not so much. We dated other people, discussed life, vented, wiled away boredom. He truly became well, to me, one of my best friends. He knows more of my secrets, fears, worries, hopes and joys then my best friends do.
In 2009, I went through a yucky breakup. I leaned on him. At times I would even think, this isn't healthy. I was using him as a crutch. I hit the dating scene again. Just never felt the mental/emotional connection.
Last spring(2010) we grew closer and closer. We did the choosing to not date other people. Did tell him I loved him. and vice versa.
He is in the UK. I am in the states. He is 30, I am 34.
There are more facts and details. Concerns. Questions. I will get into them eventually.
Just wanted to say Hello!
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