Im new too the set...here's my problem.....My fiancé and I are having issues.she said she's sick of the distance between us...she hates when I go out with my friends. I have 3 more years in the military. If we can't make it pass 1 how will we ever make...can anyone please give me some advice. I really love her with all my heart!!!!
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Hi, welcome to the forum.
Reassure her as best you can, tell her to focus on the end point and remind her that the distance is only temporary and you'll be home soon. You'll entitled t a social life so dont stop going out with your friends but if it's taking a big chunk out of time you could spend talking to her then maybe curb it a small amount. There are a few people here in military relationships i'm sure they'll be able to give you some brilliant advice. Good LuckAs long as there is air in my lungs... there is a chance
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Thank you for advice....things have been going downhill lately between me and her she broke of the engagement I'm doing my best to get us back together again...I hurts a lot because I'm not home I wish I was....I have 1,185 days left :,(..... She keep saying she can't do this distance...I don't wanna give up hope!!!!
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Welcome to the forums, and sorry that you're having such a rough time with your LDR :/
The best you can do is stay in contact with her whenever possible, and just reassure her of your feelings, and how great things were before you left, and how they'll go back to that when you get out. You made a commitment, and not one you can just leave at any time, and she does need to understand that. Just try and talk to her as often as possible about it, and hopefully she'll change her mind. LDR's aren't easy, but they are worth it.You never forget your first love...
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