Keeping secrets

[Zapookie]

I don't like secrets. If someone is keeping a secret from me, I see that as a form of lying. It's not being honest and upfront. I don't believe there is room for secrets in a relationship. They are supposed to be your "Significant Other", not just any other ordinary person. They are supposed to be important to you.

The only time I would ever keep a secret from my SO is if it didn't concern him and was something I had already dealt with a long time ago and have forgotten completely. If there's some kind of issue that's affecting me in the now, and would affect him as well, and I was keeping it from him, then yeah, that's wrong in my eyes. He would need to know and I wouldn't keep such things a secret.

[Bethypoo]

um. I really dont think secrets are a good thing. I mean, sometimes they are for the better. But really... i dont think they are 99.9% of the time.

[Engel]

I dont believe in keeping secrets from who we really love. so I dont admitt if they keep secrets from me. one of my few deal breakers.

[Kanga]

Nope, I don't believe in keeping secrets especially if it winds up effecting me. My S/O had told a huge lie in the beginning of our relationship, and it almost caused us to break up. Things are great now, but now because he hid that secret(which I would have found out eventually on my own) I have to watch things he says, and making sure they match up to what he tells me previously. I trust him, but not as much as I would like.