He drives me crazy!

[megfashion]

My grandmother who has been married to my grandfather for 50+ years and have spent their entire married life in the same house and have never moved, they also never lived together before they got married (They did the long distance thing too for a while) always told me that, "It's fine if he annoys you from time to time and if you bicker--you're golden. But you should never hate him for simply walking into a room. Then you have a problem. If you hate him for walking in, walk out and cool off. If you find you can't, FIX the problem."

I'd say that's pretty spot on advice.

THIS 100%... very good advice

[Engel]

at the begin, first 2 months we lived together, WE drove each other crazy not anymore. now, when we are in the same house, its great. we learnt the best way to make it work. and we perfect it daily. <3

[floridaellen]

Honestly, I'm difficult to live with. I have an anxiety disorder, although not full on OCD, that causes me to want everything to be completely neat and clean at all times or I can't focus or sleep. It's quite annoying, even to me. He deals with it the best he can but sometimes we bicker because it isn't perfect.
I've been working on this because it causes me a lot of distress as well.
He also tends to push me off the bed when we sleep in the same bed :P - Although not on purpose!
I steal the covers though :P

[Bethypoo]

LOL. I mean its not funny but it is.

I think that there are certain things about anyone you live with that will drive you crazy. And if you say nothing... then you are lying.

My SO will not put his cloths in the hamper about 60% of the time. He also wont open the shower curtain after he gets out to prevent mold/mildew. It drives me nuts among a few other little things. But does it drive me crazy? NO.


So if she is serious, and doesnt just mean something like that, then she may have a problem. Because really going crazy is not a good thing.