Too early?

[rcknmommy]

Is it just me or does writing letters/sending packages to your SO make him/her seem just a bit more... real? Maybe a little closer? Or as I said, maybe that's just me. Either way, I loved writing my ex letters and I can't wait to do the same with my current SO. My question is, is it possible to be too early in a relationship to do this? Writing letters I mean. If so, how do you know when you've reached the point in your relationship where it's not too early? What is your thoughts on this?

♥ Thank You!

[krabuzh]

There's no term for 'too early' or not in such a LDR, that's what I think..
Because it's the benefit from a LDR.. you are free to send your beloved one a letter or even a gift (sometimes).
This thing (letter, postcards, gifts) make yourself become more "real" like you said.
And believe me, he would also happy to get it from you.
He can read your letter anywhere and anytime he like and maybe even bring it with him and read it again anytime he miss you.

My man like it the most since he doesn't have to face the monitor to read my mail and the most important thing is that he can touch it since it's physical thing and he know that I wrote it with my heart and the fact that I also touch and sometimes give it a kiss before put it in the envelope hehehe..

[Engel]

Hmm, I think starting on the moment you are confortable enough to cinsider yourself in a romantic relationship with someone, you should be confortable enough to send him or her letters

[rcknmommy]

Exactly, it's something physical from the one you love. Something you can hold in your hands that your SO has also held in his/her hands. It just makes them feel closer. I also spray my letters with my favorite perfume so it smells like me, which I'm told also makes it feel more real. I just don't want to rush things with him.. so I'm scared of doing anything too early.

[kiara_silver]

I think since your scared to, then it is to early. You should feel comfortable and know you want to. For me, I had wanted one for awhile but with our situation i couldn't get mail The first letter I got was nearly a year later on valentines, I asked him to write me a letter. I think this is a cute idea, to send or ask for something sent on a special occasion such as v-day, or a birthday or not that christmas is coming up! Just a christmas card? Your in a relationship so it isn't something outrageous or out there getting a christmas card.

[rcknmommy]

It's not really 'scared' just don't want to rush things with him. I care for him so much more than I've cared for anyone else and I don't want to ruin things with him. I'll just talk to him about it when he wakes up, I just thought I'd ask for some others opinions to. ^^

Thank You all...

[Yaaamiii]

Once you finally feel comfortable enough, they it's safe I love writing letters too! ^^ It is so much more personal.

[Riyko]

Honestly i don't consider doing that stuff with an SO until we have been together for at least 6 months. My reason for it is, i'm not comfortable giving my address out to someone unless i've known them for at least 6 months, that way i know them well enough to know if i'm comfortable and feel safe with them having my address (but then i've been stalked in the past so it's a thing that's hard for me). Talk to him about it, if he's not comfortable giving you his address yet, don't rush it.