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    Following my heart!!!

    Hello everyone!

    This is it.Call me crazy or impulsive but at least I am not afraid to take some risks and follow my heart to be with the man I love for a lifetime.We are soulmates I know that and we both talked about spending the rest of our lifes together,having kids and all that stuff. Our love is true and special. I want to move to live in his country (St.Vincent) and I have been to this country before so it's not that I have no idea where I am going and what's it is like there. I spend 7 months there studying one horse training method and while I was living there I fell in love with this country so much. And It's not only because of my SO I want to move there, it's also because of culture,people,nature. This place changed my as a person so much,I have been trying to find myself,who I am for so many years.I tried to do different things, went to different countries but still deep in my heart I felt that something was missing.I was happy but not fully.And after I spend this time on the island suddenly I found myself,I became new me,so different that even me sometimes coudn't recognize myself. That's why this country has such a meaning to me and I want to live in the place which helped me finally get out of my shell and find hapiness
    All my friends said that I am so changed and I was always smiling and shiny. So just before I left I started to look for job opportunities,I looked everywhere and still looking.I am not giving up. It's kind of the only thing that stops me just to buy plane ticket and go straight to my love,cause I want to be able to work there and not depend on my SO!!! No matter how hard sometimes it gets I stay possitive and vizualize me living with my SO and having amazing life together.
    Dear friends I would really appreciate if you-the ones who decided to move to another country and weren't afraid to follow your heart-share your stories with me.I would love to hear some good advice about what to consider moving to different place. I know all about visas and stuff like that,but to get working visa I need to find job first and if I can't get job I can't get visa,so this is kind of annoying I already have some good friends there so I wouldn't feel like I have no friends and my SO whenever he has chance introduces me to his friends when we talk on the phone-so sweet of himAnd to fit in won't be a problem because as I said I was living there for some time so I know how it is and what to expect. I was thinking about residency visa.Has anyone of you done this? Cause it's really serious step for me to become resident of another country(which I think woudn't mind but not 100% sure). I even was thinking to open my own business there but first I would need to go and talk to business people about that idea,cause this country is not rich and not lot of tourists coming in,so I have to consider all this before I do something like that....
    I know it kind of long but I wanted you to understand my point. So many times fear stop us from following our hearts,mind gives us so many reasons not to do it,but for me it's not the case.I won't let fear stop me from going and living there,I just need some inspiring stories from you all,so I get up and make a final move

    #2
    I have no advice, i'm still far away from closing the distance, but i know that what's worth having doesn't come easy. It may be scary to leave home and move to another country, but i'd be more scared of living in my home country and not having a special someone to spend my life with. Love's worth the move.

    Distance doesn't matter when two hearts are loyal to each other.

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      #3
      Well it's true follow your heart but listen to your brain as well. I wish you he best of luck.
      .We've Closed the Distance.
      no matter where i am, no matter where you are
      i'll be there when it's over baby - cause i was there from the start
      no matter if i'm near - dont matter if you're far
      all you do is pick the phone up baby & i'll be there when you call

      Whenever you need me, whenever you want me,

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        #4
        The only advice I would give is to make sure that you continue to focus on YOU and not the relationship. You sound very young and you have so much of your life ahead of you. Even if your relationship doesn't work out (for whatever reason) you need to make sure that this will be an amazing and growing experience for you. Best wishes.

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          #5
          I don't really have any advice for you either, seeing as I haven't made a move like this, and I won't have too. My SO is still in the same country, and is planning to move back by me when he's done with school. Best of luck though, make sure you have a plan in case for some reason you and your SO don't work out. It sounds like you would be happy in this country even w/o your SO, but there is a lot to think about.

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            #6
            Hei thatgirllit! Well I am 31 years old so I don't consider myself very young. And as I said before that I love that country so much and it changed me as a person so much that even if I didn't have my SO I still want to move there and live there. Just because he is there,it makes me want to move there little bit faster And I believe 100% that everything will be great with him and we will be togehter for rest of our lives-he is my soulmate and I feel it with my heart. I have experienced enough relationship to know how different these ones are!!! I have been thinking about that move very seriously,I am not just going with my eyes closed with no thinking.But our mind can have 1000 reasons why we can't do this or that.I decide to follow my heart and not to be afraid to live life with passion. At the end,what is the worst what could happen? I can always come back to where I was-just I would come back stronger and wiser.Sounds good enough for me
            Thank you everyone else who tool your time to reply to me,I really appreciate it!!!

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              #7
              Hey! I moved to Costa Rica to be with my SO. But, like you, I knew that whether I had met my SO or not, I would have wanted to move to another country for a few years. Here, you also need a job before you can get a work permit. It's difficult to find a job that will sponsor you, but if you know how to sell yourself, it's not impossible.

              Follow your heart. Live your life. Do what you want when you want. Best of luck!

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