Well I been talking to this guy for the past couple of weeks. I wanna say since the middle of December. We both have been getting along good texting and stuff. We talked on the fone like once or twice for like 5 minutes and tried oovoing but that didnt workout because his camera wasn't working. He told me he likes me and he's falling for me. Now this is all fine with me I mean I like him 2 and I like the way we act with eachother but the one thing I don't undersand is that we have been having plans to meet for the past like 3 weeks. Like when we first started talking he was like, "Oh we should hangout on our b days." (both of our b days are the 21st of december) I couldn't hang out on my b day and after that it really wasn't brought up that much. I also posted a forum on here about when we were supposed to meet last week I think it was and that didn't happen because he had to help his aunt with new years he told me. So I decided to just let it go because he has said to me he's the shy type and we both said we were going to take things nice and slow. The only thing is that I mean it's fine to take things slow but we flirt and talk through text all the time we haven't spoken on the fone that many times and we haven't oovooed enough at all to really know wat eachother are like, do you know wat i mean? I'm pretty upfront I said to him "Oh so when are we going to meet?" and he was like "Oh we will have to pick a nice day to hang out." Every day he txts me saying good morning and the whole bit but he never gets around to saying when we are going to hang out. I don't like to hound somebody over something so I just let it go. But what should i do if he doesn't mention it at all? Were not terribly far. I'm in center of long island new york and he's in queens new york. I mean... I get if he's a shy person so maybe that's why he hasn't really brought it up? But what confuses me is in the beginning he mentioned it and now he hasn't said much about it, but he treats me like were together calling me babe, boo, love and all the mooshy goo goo stuff lol. I guess I'm just not used to a shy person because I'm not really shy like that, but if anybody can open up my eyes to the situation it'd be greatly appreciated
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I think you should ask him if he wants to meet before demanding that you meet. If he says yes, then you should take your time to talk about how exactly you would meet, what the circumstances would be, and so on. Make sure he is comfortable with this, too. It sounds like you guys don't live that far apart, so this shouldn't be that difficult. I think the key is to make sure that you are both comfortable with the kind of situations you will be putting yourselves in.
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Originally posted by kittyo9 View PostI think you should ask him if he wants to meet before demanding that you meet. If he says yes, then you should take your time to talk about how exactly you would meet, what the circumstances would be, and so on. Make sure he is comfortable with this, too. It sounds like you guys don't live that far apart, so this shouldn't be that difficult. I think the key is to make sure that you are both comfortable with the kind of situations you will be putting yourselves in.
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