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    Joining the Break-Up Club.

    We're over.

    It started after his visa got denied. Mark has always had alcohol issues, and while I thought he was getting better, the visa denial sent him spiraling. He was drunk all day every day for 3 weeks, and ignored me and yelled at me and pushed me away.
    He's working on getting sober again, but we mutually decided that we needed to break up, and if life found us in better positions to be together again, so be it.

    I feel crushed. I love him. My heart hurts.

    First Met Online: October 2010
    First Confessed Feelings: December 21, 2011
    Became a "Couple": January 7, 2012
    First Meeting: March 9-14, 2012
    Second Meeting: July 16-31, 2012
    Closed the Distance: May 30, 2013
    Engaged!: June 1, 2013
    Picking out wedding dates now!

    #2
    I'm sorry to hear that! Hopefully things will get better in the future for both you.


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      #3
      Aww man, I'm sorry to hear it =( Hope things get better for you soon <3

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        #4
        Oh no, I am so sorry =c. Hope everything gets better soon. Everything will work out.

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          #5
          I'm really sorry to hear that :/ let me know if you need to talk
          You never forget your first love...

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            #6
            Sorry to hear that. Hope you are doing alright.

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              #7
              I just want to curl up in bed and cry for the next year or so.

              First Met Online: October 2010
              First Confessed Feelings: December 21, 2011
              Became a "Couple": January 7, 2012
              First Meeting: March 9-14, 2012
              Second Meeting: July 16-31, 2012
              Closed the Distance: May 30, 2013
              Engaged!: June 1, 2013
              Picking out wedding dates now!

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                #8
                I'm sorry, I know it hurts. The pain will ease eventually, but I know that's not much comfort now. Take care of yourself.

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                  #9
                  sorry that sucks im joining it too since my local relationship that ended up long distance is now over. kinda sad when a good relationship gets destroyed because of distance

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                    #10
                    I'm so sorry to hear this.

                    I would like to be able to say something that would make you feel better, but I know I can't.

                    All I can do is to wish you all the best and hope you'll feel better soon.

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                      #11
                      I am so sorry to hear that...know that we'll all be here if you need a shoulder to cry on!
                      National Novel Writing Month Participant- 2010, 2011, 2012
                      National Novel Writing Month Winner- 2010, 2011, 2012

                      Current Writing Project: Wait Until Next Year

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                        #12
                        Im so sorry to hear. That list is getting to long. But he needs to get help and get himself set. I hope things get better for you both.
                        Got together Jan 3, 2011~ Closed the Distance March 23, 2012~ Living Together Since June 19 2012~ Future TBD......

                        I miss you more than I ever could have believed; and I was prepared to miss you a good deal." ~ Vita Sackville-west

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                          #13
                          Originally posted by Sunbeam View Post
                          I just want to curl up in bed and cry for the next year or so.
                          And there's absolutely nothing wrong with mourning. It's the first step in the healing process. We're all here for you!
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                          Began our story ~ July 1, 2007
                          Our first LDR ~ August 2009
                          Closed the distance ~ January 2011
                          He joined the Air Force ~ January 1, 2013
                          Our second LDR ~ January 2, 2013
                          He proposed ~ July 4, 2013
                          Our wedding day ~ December 30, 2014
                          Closing the distance ~ Summer 2015

                          Proud of my Airman!!


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                            #14
                            I am so sorry to hear. But stay strong.

                            Hugss**

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