Missing him many miles away

[MomvsWyfee]

what to do in a long distance relationship and how to keep focused? i'm a mother of 2 and it's hard raising them alone also missing being with the only one i love. i'm told that it will be okay and not to worry so much about the distance and that it will b ok and get better for us all. i'm wanting to leave where i am to be with him so that we can be a family but i just need advice in what i should do. i just feel like im the only one putting in all the effort

[leonsfangirl]

Hi, Welcome to the forum.

Being a parent is hard at the best of times , throw in a long distance relationship and its a whole other board game!
I have 2 children and my love is 4,000 miles away. It is very hard, as you cant just drop everything and go. It will get better but it takes alot of work and clever scheduling.

If you feel like it's you making all the effort, talk to him about it. He might not realise/know you feel that way, he can only address the problem if he's aware of one.