Best Memory

[Sharon Q]

What is one of the best memories of you and your SO?

For me its our first date. We went to the mall and hung out, goofed off and then he bought me sour patch gummy bears. I remember telling him over and over I didn't want him to get it for me but he kept insisting, I think it was because I mentioned never having them and wanting to try them.

Anyway he buys them for me and I only eat half the bag, Saving half for later when I got home. I forgot I had the back and three months later I had nats covering my windo wondering why the hell they were in my room. I had no food in my room. Or so I thought. When on the phone with him I saw the bag and burst out laughing. Explaining to him about the bag of gummy bears he bought for me and that I had fogotten to eat the rest, leaving them in my room. He replied gross, and laughed as well. I alos believe he made a joke about it, but I cant remember, that was when we first started dating. ( this may it will have been four years of knowing him )

So come on share your's!!!!

[Sierra]

My best memory of being with my boyfriend is so simple it's ridiculous. I remember one day we were laying on the couch together listening to Pink Floyd's Echoes on vinyl. He had his legs and arms around me and I had my head on his chest and he sang along. Hearing his heartbeat and listening to him sing -- in that very moment I felt so comfortable, at home and happy, I knew I loved him right then.

I think about that all the time when I'm feeling sad or I really miss him.

[lucybelle]

My favorite memory is when I was visiting him in CR. We were at a beach and we had just had dinner, but the place didn't accept credit cards. So we walked back to our hotel and I waited for him while he went to pay. When he came back he had picked a tiny bouquet of flowers for me. He handed them to me and said "I want you to know I love you."

[Dziubka]

There are a lot of memories of us together that make me smile just thinking about them.
There's one scene from our first date that I can remember very clearly, about him making fun of how slow people in Polish supermarkets work. I love his gesticulation that was definitely one thing that made me fall in love with him. (Note to self: I should ask him if he still remembers that).

When I was staying with him for a month+ last year, he met up with this other German girl for a language tandem, since I'm too impatient to teach him German. In a fit of silly, unreasonable jealousy I got pissed and give him a hard time about it. We met up after their meeting and me and him went to a bookstore, where he told me he needed to use the restroom and we'd meet at the exit. When I got there he was waiting with a bouquet of white tulips

[Turtle]

Mine is sitting on the roof of the house I was living in, watching the sunset with him and just sitting there in silence for a good hour. I remember not wanting that moment to end ever.

[kiara_silver]

Gosh there are too many. that first day, the whole day of that was amazing even though we weren't alone. On the couch him stroking my face, first kiss, of course first seeing each other. Gosh so many, but right now the one thats in my head, maybe just because of whats going on now. Is when we were staying in my parents home town. We were out with my mom and siblings, and I guess mom got a call, it was my dad and he was being negative like usual, and really judgemental. And when mom walked away and it was just me and my SO sitting in the hall of the community center, i was trying not to cry, a bit unsuccessfully, he held me, and was there to comfort me, telling me it would be alright then he told me to look in front of us. In the room ahead was these elderly couples, i guess having some kind of meet. And he said thats going to be us one day. That were going to grow old together. Mhmm he melts my heart all the time. And knows how to comfort me when i need it. This is just one of the many moments he's given me, each as equally sweet, honestly don't have a "best" memory.

[Zapookie]

Hmmm.. so many to pick from. I think one of my favourite memories would be when one night we stayed up til about 6am lying on my bed and we were having a heart to heart, talking about how we made each other feel. It was very sweet. As the sun rose, and the sky became lighter, it started to light up the room and his face as well.

[ushiwakafox]

Oh man so many memories...

Well, one of my favorites my first birthday with him. He gave me a bouquet of lilies and took me to an art museum ( I love art ). It really is to the day one of the most romantic things he's ever done. Maybe cuz his mom was probably the one who had the idea lol. God bless her XD.
All of my memories are special, they all have an importance. So I have a hard time picking which one is my favorite.

[Bethypoo]

Ummmm, I mean i have alot of fun memories. But one I love is my birthday. He had it all set up and had my best friend (who was 8.5 months pregnant mind you) in on everything and was like his personal secret ninja.

She set up a picnic for us at one of my favorite place in Monterey/pacific grove. We are and then went out and wandered on the rocks out over the ocean. Went to the aquarium and then down cannery row and bought cotton candy and some other fun stuff. After that, we went to the mall because he had to pick stuff up. Then he and my best friend kept texting each other. Finally he says we can go to the hotel and get changed for dinner. But when we walked in there was good from one of my favorite restaurants, wine, candles, roses and rose petals everywhere. It was so romantic and I loved it. And the room had one gigantic bathtub. Which I think he wanted me to share... but i didn't which i now regret.

Anyway, what makes this so great, is that he tried so hard to plan it and I loved it. But I guess everything the entire way. I obviously didnt tell him i figured it out and acted surprised the entire time. But it was great.

[loveknowsnodistance27]

So many memories...

I loved the weekend we got to spend together in June when we were CD. My dad got married and Anthony came out with me to my dad's house for the weekend to prepare for the wedding and to celebrate. The evening before the wedding, we drove down to the beach, which is only a mile from my dad's house, and we watched the sun set together. It was such a gorgeous sunset and we enjoyed every moment. The beach was so peaceful and deserted. We wrote our names in the sand together. <3 Then, the actual wedding was a beautiful day. My SO was asked to be part of the ceremony along with my brother, stepsister and stepbrother. We all stood behind my dad and stepmom during the whole ceremony, which was so beautiful. Anthony was even mentioned in their wedding vows! We danced together all night long.

Another one of my favorite memories was from a few weeks ago in early January when my SO was still home. We kinda had a little "fight" one night, mainly I got annoyed at him and he felt super bad about it, so it was more one sided than anything. After talking everything out via text (the "fight" happened over text), I told him now we have to make up and we've just recently started making out, so we decided we were going to make out the next night when we saw each other to make up, and I told him that was the best kind lol. (Not that I'd known from experience, seeing as we were each other's first kiss) Anyway, he came over that night and we watched some "Big Bang Theory" on DVD for awhile and we were trying to find the time when we could actually have a little privacy in my house. My house is small, so there's no privacy anywhere. We sorta "sneaked out" of the house...we told my mom we were going on a late night Taco Bell run, which we do from time to time. We went driving all around town to find some place quiet. We parked on a random side street and just made out for almost 3 hours. It was pure magic and I think the anticipation made it that much better. <3

Another moment I really love was when Anthony and I were just sitting one night at his house together. It was the night before he had to go back to school iirc and we were cuddling together. My head was resting on his chest, listening to the sound of his heart beating, feeling his chest rise and fall as he breathed in and out. His arm was around me and he was stroking my arm lovingly. He said to me "I wish I could sit here with you forever." That is one of my favorite things he's said to me. <3

[lademoiselle]

Hmm... now this is what I call a tough choice!

Of all the experiences we've shared, I guess one of my favourite memories was during our trip to the coast at the start of August 2011. I hadn't paddled in the sea for years, and was as excited as a child to have the chance to do so; I kicked off my sandals and hobbled down over the warm pebbles, shrieking as the incoming wave broke and the cold water surged over my feet. He didn't want to join me at first so I spent a good ten minutes down by the shoreline, squealing and leaping at the tide's ebb and flow, the delicious summer sunshine warm on my skin and my dress, the colour of watermelon, billowing in the breeze. I remember the tiny silver bubbles catching between my toes, the lightness of my heart as I laughed and laughed, overcome with a joy I couldn't remember having experienced before. All the while he watched me from a few feet behind; at one point I turned and blew him a kiss, noticed how the beam on his face was as bright as one of the sun's rays...

When I finally tired of the water and stumbled over to where he stood, he pulled me into his arms and whispered in my ear "I love to see you happy." For the first time since as long as I could remember, I realised that's indeed what I was. Happy. And at that moment, I knew I'd found Heaven on Earth.

[xbriellex]

Just like everyone, I have a lot of wonderful memories with my SO. But I think it was the time when I wasn't wearing my ring which he gave me because I left it at his house when I went to work. And then when we came back home, I was checking my email and facebook through my phone then I saw him get the ring from the table, went down on his knee and placed it back on my finger.

We have also traveled to some places in Europe and in my country, so they are a few of the best.

[Manoek]

Pffff... I think my favorites are like little things..

- after not seeing eachother for 3 years he running towards me at the airport
- standing on a hill/mountain whatever he standing behind me with his arms around me watching the stars..
*edit*
- his family making me a big ass thanksgiving dinner on november 13th because I was leaving the 15th and never had a thanksgiving!

[kat4301]

One of the best memories I have was when we were CD and decided to go out for a movie night. We had already bought the tickets so we were hurrying out when we saw a cat run across the parking lot. Seeing as I have a huge animal heart, I told my SO to try and catch the cat to see if it tags or anything. He caught the cat and it was so sweet but without tags so we carried him up to the apartment and locked in the bathroom (cause we didn't know if he would tear our apartment up). Once we got back from the movie we let the cat out and he spent all night in my SO's lap. I told my SO I had to go to sleep and to put the cat back in the bathroom if he thought the cat would pee everywhere. When I woke up the next morning, I remember rolling over and seeing my SO and the cat curled up together. We ended up keeping the cat and it was the best memory because I got to see my SO become as pet-crazed as I was and not even thinking twice that we wouldn't take care of the cat.

[Deleted]

I've been only 10 months with him and I can tell a lot of memories, from very simple ones to more elaborated ones.

I'll go this time for the time he visited me. I remember when he left he said he would come in two months because he needed to get some papers from school, but they delayed several months and so his visit did. The frustration was killing me and I had some days of being really sad and I was even starting to be a little mean to him. So the time came and he told me he was coming. He said he would arrive on Thursday late night and so we would meet until Friday. So that thursday I decided to stay late at school working intensely on homeworks so I would be able to go out with him the next day. I got home and showered and dressed for sleeping when he called saying he was at the airport. He said that before his plane left he wanted to tell me a story. He knows I love this Italian movie "Cinema Paradiso", so the story began with some allegory that is told in the film: a soldier in love with a princess, and the princess told him that if he waited 100 days and 100 nights under her window, then he would love him. The solder waited 99, in harsh climates and diseases...and then he stood up and left, he had given up.

Then my SO added something to the ending where the soldier had actually left because he knew his death was coming and did not want the princess to fall in love with him if he was going to die. Eventually they get together in another life and time and the soldier decides to finish and spend the 100th night under her window... then he ended his call saying "my princess, take a look through your window".

I thought it was one of his metaphors again and maybe he would tell me how the moon was pretty or something of sorts...and yeah you must know by now where this is going: he was there with a bunch of flowers. I just ran to his arms in my sleeping clothes and hugged him tightly, and I felt his heart rushing just as much as mine did. He had arrived a day before and lied and had asked me many days ago on my schedule so he would see me arrive and then do it. It's a bit funny because that thursday I arrived home late, and he said he had only waited for me for around ten minutes but the friend who drove him to my house said he had been there nearly three hours waiting. It was a really cute gesture and that night I cried with joy!