Exboyfriends/girlfriends?

[usmcgirl]

I don't think he's cheating or anything! Just wanted to make that clear

He goes to school with his exs and him and his brother go hang out at the mall where one of his exgirlfriend's works. Both him and my bestfriend (who goes to school with him) say that the girls try to talk to him alot and it kinda makes me feel weird when he tells me.
Sort of.. jealous, I guess? That they can talk to him and see him and I can't? And a little possesive too, I admit.

If you're in this situation, or something similar, how does it make you feel to hear that stuff? How do you deal with it?

[maja]

My SO is still good friends with his ex and as I said in another post he still had feelings for her when we met, so knowing he'll be going to Oslo soon to visit some friends including her does make me jealous...especially because he could come visit me.. :/ he has been super unhappy in Germany, so I understand he has to go and catch up with his friends, because frankly I don't know how to make him feel better when I'm not even there...just stings..I try and be mature about it and trust him and believe that his feelings for me are stronger :/

[Zandria]

Well I know for a fact that he would never talk to his ex again, he ended it, and it ended bad. But, I use to get a smidge jealous when he still use to work at the Fitch (A&F), and the girl I kind of despise, he went out with before we started talking. All in all, she didn't offer to pay for dinner or something like that, and he was done with her, it was the thought that counted, and there was none. She worked with him on Black Friday, where they had to stand in front and greet (him with his shirt off) and it made me a tiny bit jealous, same thing happened after Christmas too, they greeted in the front. She likes a lot of his stuff on Facebook, which annoys me too, haha, but he knows that I don't really like her. So, I believe it's all expressing how it bothers you, long story short, lol. Even if it's not that much, it makes all the difference, he knows what's up, and you feel like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders! It took a lot of courage for me to admit these feeling to him, but he's glad that I did, communication is everything!

Hope that helped!

Zandria <3