Feeling like its my fault.

[sagittariusgirl89]

First of all, dont tell me what I need to do. I know what I need to do...I just need sympathy and support.

So, my boyfriend said we need to change some things. We nornally have 3 convos a day and we txt through out the day, but my bf said he feels like he doesnt have time to himself anymore. I completely understand. So, we agreed to talk once a night and txt through out the day. But it seems so strange, i feel like he will distance himself from me. I feel like its my fault that he isnt happy anymore

[MAB15]

Trust me! It is not your fault! All he needs is just a but of space. I assure you it probably has nothing to do with you. You understand what he needs so you are a wonderful girlfriend by being so understanding. I totally understand what you mean though girl! It's hard not to take it personal because it is kinda personal, you will get use to it and if it doesn't work you can adjust it again He won't distance himself from you because he loves you. If he just needs a bit of space then that's all it is

[Bluestars]

Your boyfriend has told you this because he wants your relationship to improve and get better, not because he wants to distance himself from you. It is important that you both have your own separate lives and interests. Quality should be more important that quantity, so by having more time to himself, your boyfriend will probably have more to talk about, which will probably even make your relationship even better.

I just want to stress not to take this personal. You still get to talk to him once a day, so that should give you something to look forward to. Maybe you could find something new to do with your new free time

Best of luck!

[Caitlin2009]

aww dont worry i know when your used to talking alot, when you dont get to it sucks but dont worry things will be fine and like others said he wants to improve on your relationship thats why he's doing that