Im a little bit worried.....should I be????

[Angela01]

Hi guys.

I've been in a LDR for 23 months now and my SO left 2 days ago and I won't be seeing him for 19 weeks. :-(

When he is with me he gives me his password to his facebook account so I can play his games. Well, tonight I tried logging into it but I think he may have changed the password (or I just got it wrong). I have sent him a message letting him know what I did just in case he got a message to say someone was trying to access his account, because I am honest with him and don't want to keep secrets from him.

Now i'm really stressing that he is going to be angry with me over this and potentially want to break up with me over this. Things between us have been going so well but now i'm scared that I may have done something to ruin it all. Am I just being silly and worrying over nothing?

Any thoughts or advice I would love to hear!!

[CKJS]

I'm sure he will understand! If he gave you the passwords and knows you have been on his account I don't see why he would be mad. It was good of you to be honest and i'm sure it will mean a lot to him. But I really wouldn't stress over it. I don't think he will be mad at you.

Also, hopefully he didn't change his password and if he did I hope he has a good reason. Because that would kind of annoy me if my SO did and didn't tell me.

Good luck! It will probably all be okay!

[leonsfangirl]

I dont think he'll be mad, he did give you the password after all.

[lademoiselle]

I doubt there's anything to worry about. As the others have pointed out, he willingly gave you the password, so it wasn't as if you were trying to hack into his account or something! I'm pretty sure he won't think much of it

[megfashion]

nah, if you are honest with him then its fine - as you said, he gave you it to go on one of the fb games.

also you dont get a notification if you put in the wrong password - ive done that with the SOs before, freaked out a lil (we were on skype together) and then reassured :P

[magician13134]

My SO knows my passwords too and Facebook made me change my password once when someone from another country logged in at the same time as me (not my SO) and I didn't tell her right away, it just didn't come up. There are lots of reasons to change passwords and it doesn't sound like you did anything he didn't already know you were doing; you shouldn't worry about it.

[dinorider88]

if he told you his password so you can play games he shouldn't be worried. unless you come at him all "your password you gave me didn't work so you must be cheating on me rarghhhhhh!"

[Angela01]

Thanks everyone! I feel alot better now. I was being a typical female and stressing out over little things but it is hard when he is so far away. :-( Nope, I didn't go nuts at him about changing his password (if thats what he has done) or anything like that as I didn't see much point in doing that but I wanted him to know what had happened and to let him know that I hadn't done it to check up on him at all! I trust him not to do wrong by me even though on the down days it is hard not to doubt myself just a little and question myself why he is with me......But really, if we have done this for nearly 2 years, if he didn't love me he wouldn't make such an effort now would he??

[Bethypoo]

Maybe you did just enter it in wrong. I wouldn't worry to much about it. Just ask him if he changed it. I mean he gave it to you before I don't know why now would be any different.