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    #16
    Originally posted by Jazi View Post
    I can't stand that one of us is always so sleepy when we talk. something about living in different timezones feels very disconnecting. It's so nice to be doing things at the same time when we are in the same place - even if hes at work i really enjoy being in the same atmosphere .

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      #17
      probably when im watching tv (a rare occasion) and he isnt there... we always watch tv when he is round

      when watching tv, when people hug and kiss, thats hard too... miss him so much!

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        #18
        Lack of intimacy, not being able to comfort or be comforted when one of us is upset or having a bad day, not getting to talk whenever we want, only being able to hear his voice maybe once a week, and him being extremely busy.

        "Do I love you? My God, if your love were a grain of sand, mine would be a universe of beaches."

        Like a drum, my heart never stops beating for you.

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          #19
          I miss just being. Not having to do anything, not having to talk. Being able to read each other's moods and thoughts from our expressions and body language. He can't skype - we have limited internet access, so I don't even see his face when we're apart, other than pictures, and it's not the same. I miss all the things that go with being in the same space and not needing some sort of device to communicate. I equally love and hate my phone. It keeps us in contact, but it's also a symbol of being apart. Grr.

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            #20
            Originally posted by marbear31 View Post
            I like how Bethypoo put it: the immediacy. I miss touching, kissing, waking up next tot him, telling him things the moment they happen, or, better yet, sharing those moments with him. He's told me this summer when I go visit thim, I'm "not leaving his side" and he's going to "mind me like a baby." Aka, we're going to be one of those annoying couples that's attached at the hip.

            fine by me!!! :P
            don't worry, we're one of those annoying couples too... when we were CD it got to the point where we wouldn't watch a certain TV show without the other one there. (We watched all of Gilmore Girls and the majority of Grey's Anatomy on Netflix together. I had to finish Grey's alone because I moved.)


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              #21
              I think the hardest part is not being able to be there physically when she's having a rough day. I'd love to just hug her and hold her when things are crappy, and I can't.

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