As some of you know, i've been having a pretty tough time with my family at the moment, being unsupportive and unreasonable.
Well, i managed to have a couple of sit downs and have a serious talk with my mum.
I think ive cleared the air. I dont think she still completely agrees with it all still, and i can see her reasoning behind some of her thoughts and i accept it and i just hope that my actions in the future can prove to her that she is worrying for nothing and that i am able to look after myself. But she is willing to talk to me now about things, and i think now the reality has hit her that i will soon be leaving, i will have my own life soon and i wont be her little baby anymore. Well... i'll always be her little baby, but i just wont be around as much!
I think the reality of me leaving in about a year is hitting me, and i must admit im worried for the future. She wont always be around the corner if i need her, me and Sud have to support ourselves and its gonna be god damn hard, but i knew this already. But hey, we all have to leave the nest at some point eh? :P Dont get me wrong im happy to be able to do this and i am excited
But
Now my older brother has been... an arse? :L He has decided to start threatening Sud over email, calling him all the names under the sun, trying to turn me and my whole family against Sud, and basically being completely immature about the whole subject.
I dont know how to deal with it =/ My brother and me have always been very close and now i havent spoken to him for a week because of how he is being. He was completely out of order. And i cant just stay out his way or forget it, he is living with me and my parents atm as he broke up with his gf a couple of weeks ago... I dont know if that could be why he is suddenly against my relationship? He doesnt understand a LDR at all. He is having ago at me at every given time, taking it out on mum and my sister. I just dont understand... Sud has already blocked off any contact from my brother and hasnt been getting back at him in anyway.
Do you think he is just getting over his own break up and taking it out on all of us? Any advice on how to deal with him? Is he just trying to be protective of me? I guess i would be protective of my brother and sister, and i have been in the past! Its just upsetting how quickly his mind has changed and he knows its upsetting me but he doesnt care...
Just thought id share the good news and see if i can find tactics to try and get my brother to understand it (if he ever will) but it means a lot to me that he is at least civil towards things, you know?
Well, i managed to have a couple of sit downs and have a serious talk with my mum.
I think ive cleared the air. I dont think she still completely agrees with it all still, and i can see her reasoning behind some of her thoughts and i accept it and i just hope that my actions in the future can prove to her that she is worrying for nothing and that i am able to look after myself. But she is willing to talk to me now about things, and i think now the reality has hit her that i will soon be leaving, i will have my own life soon and i wont be her little baby anymore. Well... i'll always be her little baby, but i just wont be around as much!
I think the reality of me leaving in about a year is hitting me, and i must admit im worried for the future. She wont always be around the corner if i need her, me and Sud have to support ourselves and its gonna be god damn hard, but i knew this already. But hey, we all have to leave the nest at some point eh? :P Dont get me wrong im happy to be able to do this and i am excited
But
Now my older brother has been... an arse? :L He has decided to start threatening Sud over email, calling him all the names under the sun, trying to turn me and my whole family against Sud, and basically being completely immature about the whole subject.
I dont know how to deal with it =/ My brother and me have always been very close and now i havent spoken to him for a week because of how he is being. He was completely out of order. And i cant just stay out his way or forget it, he is living with me and my parents atm as he broke up with his gf a couple of weeks ago... I dont know if that could be why he is suddenly against my relationship? He doesnt understand a LDR at all. He is having ago at me at every given time, taking it out on mum and my sister. I just dont understand... Sud has already blocked off any contact from my brother and hasnt been getting back at him in anyway.
Do you think he is just getting over his own break up and taking it out on all of us? Any advice on how to deal with him? Is he just trying to be protective of me? I guess i would be protective of my brother and sister, and i have been in the past! Its just upsetting how quickly his mind has changed and he knows its upsetting me but he doesnt care...
Just thought id share the good news and see if i can find tactics to try and get my brother to understand it (if he ever will) but it means a lot to me that he is at least civil towards things, you know?
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