My situation

[ryan1893]

Well.. I'm only 18. This girl is 18. I live in Illinois and she lives in Georgia now. We were best friends since we were 8. Then she moved away when were both 15. 3 years later, here I am. I miss her so very much, I cant sleep at night I think about it so much. We talk to one another other often. We were into each other a lot, we both knew it and still do. We never had an official relationship. In 2 months (June 4th 2012) ill be leaving for boot camp for the Marine Corps. She'll be going to college. I have no idea what to do.. I want her so badly. I know were young, but I love her so much. Please help me with feedback and suggestions! badly.

[lucybelle]

Hmm I have a feeling you're having "what if" syndrome. All you can do is think about what would have happened if you had been together. A lot of times the only way to make that feeling go away is go for it. Ask her if she wants to try a LDR. It might work out, it might not. But if you don't do it, you'll never get rid of the "what ifs".

[ryan1893]

Thank you! I will definitely try asking! Yeah I can see what your saying though. I know I'm still young, I just feel so strongly towards, she's beyond awesome.

[temporaryuser]

you still talk to each other, so obviously there is some kind of mutual attraction. Youre going to have to come out and let her know how you feel, see if she feels the same. And go from there. is there a chance you will be able to see each other before y0u leave for boot camp? Where will she be going to college? With millitary and college, you are looking at an extended ldr, as you will be on the move for the first few years, and she will be stationary at school. These are things to consider and discuss. Not that i am trying to talk you out of it, but you need to realize that it will be easier to approach her if youhave already had the chance to think all these things thru.

[Michivf04]

Well to me it doesn't matter your young. You can have feeling for her. But i suggest talking to her and being honest. You guys probably can get into an agreement if you want to try a LDR or you might find out that maybe she is not, but to me any answer would be better than wondering "what if?" If you really want to be with her talk to her, tell her how you feel, ask her if she feels the same & if she would be willing to work thru a LDR. Wish you the best. And remember that with honesty and communication you can go a long way. =)

[lademoiselle]

I agree with the others, I don't see you have anything to lose by telling her how you feel. When it comes to situations like this, I think you're more likely to regret the things you didn't say than the things you did. Go for it, you never know how it might work out Best of luck!

[browneyedgirl08]

Yes, keep us posted, is she dating anyone right now? I know it is a risk. My best friend was in love with me and I didn't know it until years later. If it is the wrong timing god will let you know, if its not then perhaps when you guys are older and have no commitments you guys are set.

[Zephii]

You're not to young to make it work. Talk to her!