Ok so tonight my SO's grandma had to take the ambulance to the hospital.
And well she got on MSN on her phone and told me and i was totally crushed that i couldn't comfort her. Like seriously that sucked so hard. She was crying and all and i could just basically sit here and read about it.
Ofc i tried my best to comfort her with text, but that doesn't really help all that much.
Now fortunately everything was alright and her grandma is up and running. But still. So hard to just sit and not be able to do anyhting.
Ok this is all just rant. But i had to write something about it.
And well she got on MSN on her phone and told me and i was totally crushed that i couldn't comfort her. Like seriously that sucked so hard. She was crying and all and i could just basically sit here and read about it.
Ofc i tried my best to comfort her with text, but that doesn't really help all that much.
Now fortunately everything was alright and her grandma is up and running. But still. So hard to just sit and not be able to do anyhting.
Ok this is all just rant. But i had to write something about it.
im sorry to hear this, i can imagine how you feel , but on the other hand i think you already helped her a lot by listening...when i was really upset cos my granddad was in hospital or my parents were getting divorced, he could only listen and try to cheer me up and it did help me to know he was there for me no matter what and even though he couldnt give me hug or kiss i still felt a lot better after talking to someone who really cares and is not involvedd in that thing themselves (i couldnt talk to anyone in my family cos everyone was so über upset), so you really shouldnt be feeling so bad about yourself 
i know how much it sucks from my own experience and especially cos im a very worrying person so its even worse, but whenever i think of how much he has helped me just by listening i feel a bit better cos i hope that it helps him as much as it helps me
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