Interesting! I'll answer this for you.
1. How long have you been with your SO? How far apart are you?
I've been a year and 10 days with him at this point, out of this time we've been long distance for 9 and half months. He lives around 900 miles apart from me.
2. Briefly describe your SO’s personality?
He's a very sensible guy with lots of imagination. He can be very mature when it comes to serious situations and he is very smart and cultured. He works a lot with his moral and has a very good heart although he believes he must still grow up and become a better person. He's kind of introverted but he knows how to stand for what he wants.
3. What do you believe is the hardest part in maintaining a long distance relationship?
Going out with friends who invite their couples and being the only one there whose partner isn't there. It gets a little awkward.
4. Are there any advantages to a LDR.
Definitely. We can spend more time with friends and family, we have time for school too... but mostly, we learn a lot about trust, we get extra chances of being romantic, and we get to know each other better than close distance couples...since speaking is all we can do. And of course... when you do get time with your SO, it's just priceless.
5. Do you find keeping a LDR going frustrating?
I used to believe it but it grows easier every time for me.
6. If there are any problems, do they tend to be reoccurring issues? If so what are they?
Not really. Perhaps the only issue is the fact that when we speak he can't see my face right away so he can't know from first glance how I am feeling...so it makes starting a conversation a bit harder.
7. What do you believe is the key/s to a healthy relationship?
Love, trust, honesty, commitment... and some maturity.
8. How important is trust?
Way too much! If you can't be trusted and cannot trust, you will have plenty of troubles in an LDR and you will constantly feel troubled.
9. Has jealousy ever been an issue? If so how do you deal with it?
Not really, i've felt just little itches of jealousy but they have never really botehred me because I trust him a lot and we always speak about it in a good way.
10. Is your feeling of intimacy (emotional closeness) towards your SO affected by the distance?
Affected, yes... for the bad? No. It helped us grow stronger emotionally and have stronger feelings towards one another.
11. How do you attempt to maintain “closeness” while separated? In other words how do you cope through time spent apart?
We speak a lot, we tell each other how our day went, we have skype dates every now and then. I like sending letters and drawings to him and he loves writing so he makes poems and stories he reads to me.
12. Do you see any shift in yourself, emotions/actions, when separated from your SO?
When I am missing him too much I can get bitchy and act emotionally distant. This does not happen a lot though, and i've learnt that it is better to tell him how much I miss him even if he has to see me cry over it via skype; than keeping it inside.
13. Is it worth it?[/QUOTE]
Totally. Every single day of waiting for him is. The way we feel when we are together is worth this and and much more.
1. How long have you been with your SO? How far apart are you?
I've been a year and 10 days with him at this point, out of this time we've been long distance for 9 and half months. He lives around 900 miles apart from me.
2. Briefly describe your SO’s personality?
He's a very sensible guy with lots of imagination. He can be very mature when it comes to serious situations and he is very smart and cultured. He works a lot with his moral and has a very good heart although he believes he must still grow up and become a better person. He's kind of introverted but he knows how to stand for what he wants.
3. What do you believe is the hardest part in maintaining a long distance relationship?
Going out with friends who invite their couples and being the only one there whose partner isn't there. It gets a little awkward.
4. Are there any advantages to a LDR.
Definitely. We can spend more time with friends and family, we have time for school too... but mostly, we learn a lot about trust, we get extra chances of being romantic, and we get to know each other better than close distance couples...since speaking is all we can do. And of course... when you do get time with your SO, it's just priceless.
5. Do you find keeping a LDR going frustrating?
I used to believe it but it grows easier every time for me.
6. If there are any problems, do they tend to be reoccurring issues? If so what are they?
Not really. Perhaps the only issue is the fact that when we speak he can't see my face right away so he can't know from first glance how I am feeling...so it makes starting a conversation a bit harder.
7. What do you believe is the key/s to a healthy relationship?
Love, trust, honesty, commitment... and some maturity.
8. How important is trust?
Way too much! If you can't be trusted and cannot trust, you will have plenty of troubles in an LDR and you will constantly feel troubled.
9. Has jealousy ever been an issue? If so how do you deal with it?
Not really, i've felt just little itches of jealousy but they have never really botehred me because I trust him a lot and we always speak about it in a good way.
10. Is your feeling of intimacy (emotional closeness) towards your SO affected by the distance?
Affected, yes... for the bad? No. It helped us grow stronger emotionally and have stronger feelings towards one another.
11. How do you attempt to maintain “closeness” while separated? In other words how do you cope through time spent apart?
We speak a lot, we tell each other how our day went, we have skype dates every now and then. I like sending letters and drawings to him and he loves writing so he makes poems and stories he reads to me.
12. Do you see any shift in yourself, emotions/actions, when separated from your SO?
When I am missing him too much I can get bitchy and act emotionally distant. This does not happen a lot though, and i've learnt that it is better to tell him how much I miss him even if he has to see me cry over it via skype; than keeping it inside.
13. Is it worth it?[/QUOTE]
Totally. Every single day of waiting for him is. The way we feel when we are together is worth this and and much more.
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