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Because he makes me smile even when I'm grumpy.
Because he plays games with me even though he knows I can't loose.
Because he discusses things he would rather not discuss.
Because he's taking me on an amazing trip next week.
Because he always makes sure I'm fine.
Because of the way he teases me.
Because he looks so cute when he's tired.
Because he's so funny.
Because he has the most gorgeous eyes.
Because we do so well together living with each other.
<3
I love him today because he's been cleaning his house the past couple of days to get ready for my arrival. I always tell him things don't have to be perfect, that I really don't care, but I think it's adorable.
I love him today because he isn't jealous. I know so many complain that "he's so jealous and possessive!", but a little of that can be a good thing. It shows you're valued. Lacking that in my relationship has occasionally made me feel undervalued. But now I see that, it isn't that he doesn't get jealous and possessive. It's that he keeps it in control because he LOVES and TRUSTS me and he values me so much that he wants to SHOW ME OFF and let everyone else see what they're MISSING. He knows that no matter how many guys flirt with me, how many guys try to get with me, that I don't even give them second glances. He knows that at the end of the day, it's HIM that I'm coming home to. And I know that he would never let any of those guys hurt me. Even when he can't be with me, he makes sure I'm taken care of... I didn't realize it until months later, but when he left, he made sure to tell his friends that were staying to watch out for me.
For the longest time, I hated that he would never be openly jealous and possessive. Isn't he afraid to lose me to someone else? Doesn't he care?
But I've realized that's not it at all. And I've decided that I'm going to take every 'fault' I've ever seen in him and turn it into something good. Lighting changes everything, right babe? I'm going to see him in a new light. Starting now.
I love him today because when I said to him recently, "I feel the need to shave my head as a sort of prop to my PTSD therapy; I believe it will help me feel cleaner, and pure, and like I can be reborn, free of my past. I would just shave it the once, for the symbolism, and then let it regrow. But I am scared it will make me less attractive to you, if I do.", his response was to say, "You know I love your hair, but I know you will look so beautiful with a shaved head; it will really show off your cheekbones and eyes. I can't wait to see the photographs." which was the single most supportive reaction he could have had, and instantly allayed so many of my fears about becoming "ugly".
For this, and so many other reasons, I find him wonderful.
I love him today, because he just plain makes me laugh. After being bummed out about from going to a specialist about my dislocating shoulder, he cheered me up on skype :]
Met/First Date: October 18, 2013
First Kiss: October 18, 2013
We Fell in Love: November 2013
First Visit To See Him in TX: November 15-17 2013
His Recent Visit To PA: October 18-20 2013
I love him today because of his faces He has a specific face for every type of thing that he's thinking or doing :P His movie watching face is hilarious But I love his face about me Whenever he's just focusing on me (like we're lying in bed and he's just looking at me) his face has this little soft smile and his eyes look relaxed. It just makes me feel loved because I know that that's his "I love Tara" face
...because today he told me that if he can't move home when he had planned (October), he will help me find a job where he is and fly me out to live with him so we can FINALLY close the distance again. <3
I love him today because he does everything in his power to make me happy. I know he was just as upset as I was about him leaving but he held it together to try and keep me from crying. I love him so much. <3
"I love you and I've loved you all along and I miss you. Been far away for far too long."<3
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