Alright so turns out my family is a serial LDR dater?
My older sister is 27 and has been in a LDR for around a year now. I've been for a little more than that.
...but now my sister is in one too, my parents don't know. But my sister is only 14 (since 4 days ago). Although I do not think she lasts long...well, I did not really want that for her. I feel this might become a family problem since my mother is actually against LDRs and we are already in a harsh family situation at the moment because my mother is feeling we are not the daughters she planned us to be. I am really hoping my little sister either waits years to tell mom the truth or she breaks up soon. I feel like a horrible bitch for wishing that. :/
I had not really realized my big sis was in an LDR because when she left for a year, at first she had broken up. I started out with my SO during that time and then my sister came back with hers, so I was actually the first to go LD. I don't know... I just did not want this for her. And I am starting to feel uncomfortable about it. First because I know my mother will blame it on me because she warned me that she did not want my sisters to follow my "bad example". She repeated that on and on when my SO moved. So I kind of feel it *is* partly my fault... specially since I know my little sis looks up to me a lot.
I won't make her break up nor I'll break up because of this...but I'm just worried of what might become family life, specially to me, if my mother finds out about my sister. I had a very hard time convincing my mother that my relationship was not wrong and that nothing would happen to my sisters...and now this happens. If she finds out she'll bring Hell over me...again.
I know I sound a lot like a little immature girl in her 15 years of age who is afraid her mother scolds her... but as I said, my family situation is harsh enough already with my mom's disappointment over all of us.
My older sister is 27 and has been in a LDR for around a year now. I've been for a little more than that.
...but now my sister is in one too, my parents don't know. But my sister is only 14 (since 4 days ago). Although I do not think she lasts long...well, I did not really want that for her. I feel this might become a family problem since my mother is actually against LDRs and we are already in a harsh family situation at the moment because my mother is feeling we are not the daughters she planned us to be. I am really hoping my little sister either waits years to tell mom the truth or she breaks up soon. I feel like a horrible bitch for wishing that. :/
I had not really realized my big sis was in an LDR because when she left for a year, at first she had broken up. I started out with my SO during that time and then my sister came back with hers, so I was actually the first to go LD. I don't know... I just did not want this for her. And I am starting to feel uncomfortable about it. First because I know my mother will blame it on me because she warned me that she did not want my sisters to follow my "bad example". She repeated that on and on when my SO moved. So I kind of feel it *is* partly my fault... specially since I know my little sis looks up to me a lot.
I won't make her break up nor I'll break up because of this...but I'm just worried of what might become family life, specially to me, if my mother finds out about my sister. I had a very hard time convincing my mother that my relationship was not wrong and that nothing would happen to my sisters...and now this happens. If she finds out she'll bring Hell over me...again.
I know I sound a lot like a little immature girl in her 15 years of age who is afraid her mother scolds her... but as I said, my family situation is harsh enough already with my mom's disappointment over all of us.
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