He Left Today...

[amazingmendoza]

I dropped him off at LAX this morning. This was his first time visiting me, my hometown and being part of my life here in the U.S. I'd never had to deal with being at places that remind me of him until now. Man it is hard!! I guess now I understand what he feels (It's always been me visiting him). Harder than having to lie in my bed without him is the fact that I probably won't be seeing him for another 7 months.
~Feeling pretty miserable right about now.

[Yaaamiii]

I totally understand. My SO and I were in the same college for a year. He had to transfer, I stayed. No matter where I go, I am reminded of him. Do things to keep yourself busy, don't focus on missing him as much as how much fun you guys had being together in those places. Best of luck!

[lonelyinlove]

Awww...... *big hug*

[Romeo s Juliet]

Awww keep strong tc hugs : make sure you keep your self busy with work you ll feel better soon and even before you kbow, those 7 months will pass by

[corrda00]

I totally understand. My SO and I were in the same college for a year. He had to transfer, I stayed. No matter where I go, I am reminded of him. Do things to keep yourself busy, don't focus on missing him as much as how much fun you guys had being together in those places. Best of luck!

Its the same with me. She went back home 2nd sem and I stayed. It was really hard to be there without her

[Zapookie]

I felt that way too when my SO left for the first time. We spent 3 months together. Don't worry, it will soon pass. Just don't visit those places for the time being. Try and find new things for yourself to do. Keep busy. I haven't seen my SO in 7 months, but the time flew by and I feel that we, as individuals, and our relationship have become a lot stronger because of it.

[Biddlybiddlybombop]

*hugs!* It sucks right now, but it will get better. I prefer visiting him, because by the time it's time to come home, I'm excited to see all my friends and family again. Having him leave me sucked 100% more for me.

I know it's re-hashing old advice, but try and stay busy. And come here, and moan about being long distance (we've all done it), and browse and chat. You'll feel better soon.

[Kiyama]

I can feel with you. I was devestated when my SO left after his first visit here. It is completely different compared to when you're the one visiting and leaving. My flat was horribly empty
So I'm sending you many hugs. Stay strong and keep busy. Meet up with friends, your family and you'll be better soon. Even if you can't imagine it now

[leonsfangirl]

My SO left today, i know exactly how you feel.

[notyourexgirlfriend]

Goodbyes are always hard, no matter which one of you is leaving.

[marbear31]

Hugs, and much love.

We're all here for you!!

[kirbycat]

I hear ya. My SO just left from his first visit out here on Saturday, but I've had a lot going on since then so it didn't really hit me until this morning that he's gone and I can't just lean over to kiss him or hold him. I'm lucky that we were able to make plans for our next visit while he was here, so I have that to look forward to. Like others have said, just stay busy, enjoy being with the friends/family you have there, and remember that each lonely night is bringing you that much closer to when you'll see him again!