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    #16
    Mrs. A

    how are you doing today?
    The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.

    Carl Jung (1875 - 1961)

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      #17
      why would you give us all your private convo to read well if it is the end,just be strong.you cant always hang to the things even if they dont work out and just face it.if you feel tats it and thats the end,then have the courage to move on.after all,tats not the worse that can happen to a human being,there are lots of people losing families and dying of cancer and you feel bad because of stupid action of the guy...be strong,girl.i understand how you feel,but if after speaking to him (calm!) and clearing he decided for sure to break up...let it go.its upto you,trust your feelings,if you feel theres chance to save relationship-go for it,if then really move on.after all,personal freedom is good thing too

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        #18
        Carenza_laRue, How am I today? Thanks for asking, well I'm trying to take it slow n thinking how all of the sudden he racted this way, he never did this bfore, nor he was posesive or else, he never conditioned our love, he's very mature that's why its harder to swallow it, I'm giving him space n if I get to talk to him n doesn't works out still like irina said, move on, do it fast n it'll hurt less but we'll se what happens

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          #19
          I'm sorry your going through this. Trust your gut, but I can understand completely the need to talk to them and try to figure out whats going on, just that sometimes we don't always get that. Good luck *love and hugs*

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            #20
            Originally posted by Mr&Mrs.A View Post
            Carenza_laRue, How am I today? Thanks for asking, well I'm trying to take it slow n thinking how all of the sudden he racted this way, he never did this bfore, nor he was posesive or else, he never conditioned our love, he's very mature that's why its harder to swallow it, I'm giving him space n if I get to talk to him n doesn't works out still like irina said, move on, do it fast n it'll hurt less but we'll se what happens
            good to see you being a bit stronger than yesterday... hope you slept well...
            give it some time..

            and how ever this may end.... it happens for a reason.... to use a cliché.... but it really is so... best of luck ...
            The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.

            Carl Jung (1875 - 1961)

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              #21
              we are here to support you,remember this ok hope u guys get a chance to talk

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                #22
                Originally posted by digitalfever View Post
                That's not healthy or mature behaviour. Stressed or not.

                THIS. He is freaking out at you for not wearing jewelry he gave you and for what you're wearing?! You said yourself he is controlling, but this goes beyond that. That is downright wrong, abusive and disrespectful. Run as fast as you can from people who think it is ok to treat another human being with such condescension.

                If he is treating you like this, just imagine how he would treat any children you would have in the future should you stay together.

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                  #23
                  Originally posted by WakeUpSusie View Post
                  THIS. He is freaking out at you for not wearing jewelry he gave you and for what you're wearing?! You said yourself he is controlling, but this
                  If he is treating you like this, just imagine how he would treat any children you would have in the future should you stay together.
                  so agree! you know after breaking up with my ex i remembered he shouted at his mother n i thought,jeez that means he wud do same to me

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                    #24
                    Originally posted by WakeUpSusie View Post
                    THIS. He is freaking out at you for not wearing jewelry he gave you and for what you're wearing?! You said yourself he is controlling, but this goes beyond that. That is downright wrong, abusive and disrespectful. Run as fast as you can from people who think it is ok to treat another human being with such condescension.

                    If he is treating you like this, just imagine how he would treat any children you would have in the future should you stay together.

                    totally agree he overboard way to much on this thing not wearing his presents regardless of his crazy stressful situation because of his job, but i never ever said he is possessive or else! i've been in relationships like that before n never again, one of our limitations kinda rule thing is for our relationship to be possessive-controlative free, this was the first time that something like this happened n if we fix things up n happens again i hardly doubt of a second chance but i promise myself once that i wasn't gonna give up than easy on us, shit always happens no matter what so im making sure im there for him always, n believe me if he would of treat me like that im definitively wouldn't be with him right now

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