Hi everyone, I'm not too new to this forum but it's just that I lurk around a lot rather than type.
It's been an idea for a few months now for my SO and I to watch a movie online together and this afternoon was meant to be it, planned the time and everything. Basically she didn't turn up online at all and left me waiting there for an hour until I gave up and went for a walk.
Now, I might be more alright with this if it weren't for the fact that this isn't the first time that it's happened. Before, she was busy with exam study (Which is perfectly understandable, I don't want to be an obstacle to her so I respect the fact that she needs time for her own things) but simply didn't tell me that she wouldn't be on- leaving me waiting for nothing.
She's on her holidays now so I wonder what her excuse will be this time. I'm sure that there's a good reason as to why she didn't turn up and maybe this is just a tiny thing that I'm fussing over. But I just wish that she'd tell me beforehand or something.
We can't go on a proper date so to me this feels like one of the next best things. I don't even like movie dates because it doesn't let me know her better but I just wanted to do *something* together for once. And it's as if I've turned up to the cinemas only to find that she's completely forgotten about me.
Has this same thing happened to anyone? How would you feel if your SO confronted you with this sort of thing?
We've only been together for 4 months and this is my first relationship so I'm scared to tell her that this isn't 100% alright with me. But I'm too annoyed to completely let it go too. This is a small problem compared to most of what I read here haha but thanks for letting me rant and thanks in advance for your responses anyway.
EDIT: False alarm everyone. As it turns out, she has a similar story of going online but not seeing me there and waiting for me .-. (Blasted technology) So in the end it was no one's fault! But thanks for the replies and opinions anyway because it still relates to the first time that she didn't turn up If anyone is wondering, the movie that we're watching is Voices of a Distant Star by Makato Shinkai. It's a short film with the theme of long-distance love and it's a bit of a tear jerker. I'd recommend watching it for sure!
It's been an idea for a few months now for my SO and I to watch a movie online together and this afternoon was meant to be it, planned the time and everything. Basically she didn't turn up online at all and left me waiting there for an hour until I gave up and went for a walk.
Now, I might be more alright with this if it weren't for the fact that this isn't the first time that it's happened. Before, she was busy with exam study (Which is perfectly understandable, I don't want to be an obstacle to her so I respect the fact that she needs time for her own things) but simply didn't tell me that she wouldn't be on- leaving me waiting for nothing.
She's on her holidays now so I wonder what her excuse will be this time. I'm sure that there's a good reason as to why she didn't turn up and maybe this is just a tiny thing that I'm fussing over. But I just wish that she'd tell me beforehand or something.
We can't go on a proper date so to me this feels like one of the next best things. I don't even like movie dates because it doesn't let me know her better but I just wanted to do *something* together for once. And it's as if I've turned up to the cinemas only to find that she's completely forgotten about me.
Has this same thing happened to anyone? How would you feel if your SO confronted you with this sort of thing?
We've only been together for 4 months and this is my first relationship so I'm scared to tell her that this isn't 100% alright with me. But I'm too annoyed to completely let it go too. This is a small problem compared to most of what I read here haha but thanks for letting me rant and thanks in advance for your responses anyway.
EDIT: False alarm everyone. As it turns out, she has a similar story of going online but not seeing me there and waiting for me .-. (Blasted technology) So in the end it was no one's fault! But thanks for the replies and opinions anyway because it still relates to the first time that she didn't turn up If anyone is wondering, the movie that we're watching is Voices of a Distant Star by Makato Shinkai. It's a short film with the theme of long-distance love and it's a bit of a tear jerker. I'd recommend watching it for sure!
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