How could he break my heart like this? He never felt anything:(

[miss-kitty]

In a nutshell, boy likes girl, girl likes boy back and attraction is strong but she is with someone else. Boy moves away but waits for girl to end relationship but she takes a too long so boy finds someone else in the mean time. Girl though heartbroken decides to be supportive and stops flirting. Boy on the other doesn’t stop but kinda slows it down but continues to push girl to end relationship. I asked about this a while back and I was told tell him how I felt and I did. It got to the point were he didn’t talk about the new girl; it was as if she didn’t exist. He wanted me to send him naked photos, he wanted to visit, he started flirting even more then he would suddenly disappear and when he reappeared he just wanted to jump straight where we left the conversation. I got tired of it and kinda told (wrote) him that I really didn’t want to do that anymore and that he needed to focus on the new girl and to forget about me that we just weren’t meant to be. In his reply he said, that he never believed I would actually end my last relationship because it seemed like I didn’t want to end. So because of this he only thinks of me as a friend and that he had moved on. How could I have not seen it, how could I have been so blind and was I just reading too much into nothing?

[Honeypie]

Sometimes we only see what we want to see. Live & learn .... better to have found out now then later. Are you really heartbroken? Were you in love with him? Or are you upset that he was "playing" with you?

[miss-kitty]

Actually i am not upset more like disappointed in both him andf myself as well. I am not the sort to just fool around and i thought the same about him. Am I heart broken yes was i inlove yes...i believe that with all heart. I thought or believed that the only reason we werent together was because of me just from how addamant he was about pushing me to leave. So yes i am really hurt.

[prinzeza87]

sorry u hurting , with time u will b fine. make the process of letting him go faster so that u hurt much less quicker

[notyourexgirlfriend]

Time will heal. I know it's what everyone says but it's true. I'd be feeling a little disappointed too. Better now than 2 years from now I think. (hugs)

[Sharon Q]

I'm confused he was with someone else while flirting and asking you to send naked photos? If so I say you doged a bullet.
If he would do that with someone else what makes you think he wouldnt have done it with you?

I know your hurting, but time will help heal this wound.

[miss-kitty]

Thank you guys....i guess it was inevitable and since i was belind to what was truely happening i have to pay for it....i have cut all communication and i guess taking baby steps

[miss-kitty]

He started that type of flirting after i told him i broke it off.

[notyourexgirlfriend]

One day at a time matey. (hugs)

[Honeypie]

I'm confused he was with someone else while flirting and asking you to send naked photos? If so I say you doged a bullet.

The difference between the 1st post re. how far would you go for sex? & this one about being in love with him just have me confused alittle. The 1st just sounding like you had been flirting but he was with someone else & you wanted more then just sex & now you're heartbroken that you were right.

Sorry you're hurting but it's for the best that you have cut all ties with him.