When the going gets rough

[Jessipoo]

I wish I could've applied this to myself before getting to the point I am now but you live and learn.

This could be a good tool for people.

When your SO gets busy and communication is different, remember context. Don't take things personally, sometimes it's not.

Keep and re read love emails, texts, or watch videos (even if it's painful at first because you feel unloved)

Look through texts or emails or your memory to see what conflicts arose and how you dealt with it and how you guys talked it out and what the resolution was.

Remember to stay positive and keep things in perspective. Patience.

[Snowlilly]

I actually do that a lot......I save his emails in a special folder and then go back and read them from time to time. Not just the ummm dirty ones....lol.

[staystrong12]

I do that too. I love at our pictures often and sometimes I'll go back and read our old emails or texts.

[Tanja]

I've done that too. It used to be nice but right now it just makes me sad to see what we had and don't have anymore. So I avoid it for now but hopefully there'll be a time when I can do it again and be happy to see the good memories.

[Jessipoo]

I've done that too. It used to be nice but right now it just makes me sad to see what we had and don't have anymore. So I avoid it for now but hopefully there'll be a time when I can do it again and be happy to see the good memories.

I know what you mean. Try though, even if it hurts at first. It is healthier to see positivity.

[Honeypie]

I actually do that a lot......I save his emails in a special folder and then go back and read them from time to time. Not just the ummm dirty ones....lol.

but the dirty ones are usually the best

[LeilaniJoi]

I still do this even though we have been CD for over a year now. Dirty ones and all o.O

[prinzeza87]

same here! i have different folders for pictures, videos of him, songs dedicated and love emails/txts . i enjoy reading and going through all of our history together

[jdwate]

I always do that. I kept my old phone just because I wanted to keep all his texts and videos.

[Nbaby]

but the dirty ones are usually the best

I agree hahahah and i feel bad about it (not lol).
But im glad im not the only one saving textmsgs