New here and need some help.

[Honeypie]

She sounds like the girl with a golden vajajay syndrome,

I can't stop laughing

[Lucki]

Thank you all so much for the replies. It really helps to have a bit of outside opinion.

I took Vonsever's advice and asked if I could have the ticket transferred to her. she ignored me for a bit and then said that I had to prove my love to her and was really offended that I offered to do that? I told her, maybe a talk together in person can sort out these feelings as I see you are upset and I feel that its all a big misunderstanding. Then she got all angry and was like I don't have to tolerate you blaming me for your incompetence and selfishness and then disappeared.

(sigh) So, I guess that's it.

[Malaga]

I'm sorry it came to that but it's really for the best. With people like that, the sooner you get rid, the better. You seem like a patient and caring person, you'll find someone better for you who'll treat you the way you deserve.

Good luck xx

[Sora1101]

Honestly sorry if this sounds harsh but I feel like she's been waiting for an excuse to dump you and now that she finally found one, be it totally insanely crazy and no fault of your own, she's sticking to it like glue and is refusing to see sense. Any good person would be more concerned with their SO's well being not the visit, I think it's best that you can see this side of her now and can move on to someone better and more deserving of your affections.

[lademoiselle]

I'm sorry it came to that but it's really for the best. With people like that, the sooner you get rid, the better. You seem like a patient and caring person, you'll find someone better for you who'll treat you the way you deserve.

I second this.

Get well soon, take care and best of luck to you

[Maximilia]

But last week, I got into a pretty bad car accident which made me unable to go see her last week. I explained to her that I was sorry and that I would re-schedule the flight for when I am able to fly to Canada to meet her to which she replied that my car accident was simply an excuse and if I really loved her the way that I claim to, I would find a way to get to her asap. I then told her of course I love her, but due to the accident I am unable to travel and that we can reschedule the flight.

She then proceeded to tell her family and friends that I was making excuses to not see her and that I didn't love her or care about her feelings, so they all suggested she dump me.

Well, today, she dumped me :/ and then told me, If I wanted to be with her, I had to fight for her love back and do something completely spontaneous like end up on her doorstep in the next week and beg for her love back, and that if I couldn't then I must not love her. She also ended it with "If you want something bad enough, you will find a way. If not, you will find an excuse"

Personally, I don't see me being injured and in the hospital as an excuse
but now I am so confused that I don't know what to do anymore.

Am I being irrational for feeling kind of meh about this?
Any suggestions as to what I should do?

Wow, dude. I don't need to read the other replies here to answer: You are better off without her. Let me say that again: You are better off without her! To say that your car accident was an excuse? That's unforgivable. I can't even wrap my head around that, seriously. To me, she sounds selfish and narcissistic. That she called your accident an ... yeah. Still can't wrap my head around it.

You are not irrational for feeling meh about it. I'm surprised you're not angry! As for suggestions... concentrate on healing and getting better, man.