I'm pretty sure she is seriously going to leave me

[KyleRivera]

I talked to my girlfriend today (day before I see her) and told her how I feel as if she has been drawing away from me and how she told me I wasn't "wild" enough....So she eventually told me she feels like she doesn't "feel a connection..." Then my phone cut out and she had to go into work....I have been bugged all day by this since she told me. I don't know what to do. Her birthday is on sunday and I had planned to do a whole bunch of things for her and make it special and show her how much I care and that I listen to her...

Now i'm just not sure if I should go through with any of these things...Is it possible that I can save this before it goes bad? I feel my heart breaking as I write this, we have been together for 7 looooong months and I have put so much into this relationship. A lot of Money and a lot of time and effort but I feel she is worth it all...and even after she said what she said, I still want her in my life sooo bad. What can I do to save this? Please help me :'( I feel her slipping and I don't want her to leave me and I don't want to leave her...I hope you guys can give me some really good advice, you have been doing an awesome job ever since I have joined this forum...

[Jayburr]

Honestly Kyle, your trip is tomorrow, she's at work, you probably will have mere hours to talk with her again before leaving (if that), I really don't think that's enough time to convince her that a connection is there. A connection can't be forced, it has to develop on its' own and there is simply not enough time.

You don't have to call it quits with her, but you need to decide whether this trip is going to be worth it or not with her feeling the way she does.

[Abby5445]

I agree, a trip is a pretty big step.
Maybe shes drawing away because she.isnt ready? Assuming you two havent seen eachother.