Not sure how to word this question, so bear with me here.
As I've said before, my SO works in the Disney World park in Florida. He's been there since late January and he's been pretty mistreated ever since, especially now that it's the summer months and kids are out of school. I barely see him anymore. Earlier today he snuck off to call me (even had to call me back at one point since another manager almost caught him) and was telling me how he spent almost every day wanting to quit, he couldn't relax, he wasn't sleeping, etc.
Ever since work began eating his time and his patience I've wanted to ask him if he would mind my looking for jobs for him here. My city has a lot of employment opportunities right now and with the money I have saved I could help him move out here and maybe even split an apartment with him. Today I really wanted to ask, but I didn't because I'm scared it'd be going too far, or he'd flat out say no.
I know some people help their SOs get to where they are or they work to get to them, but I'm not so sure it's... appropriate? in this case. He's been trying to get me to move out there eventually, he even offered to help me get a job with Disney, but I'm not comfortable with moving when I haven't even started college, I'm on disability and medicare, and I'm easily overwhelmed. I'm afraid he'll react the same way or get mad that I'm suddenly trying to get him to move where I want when he's been trying for months to get me there. Really all I want is to get him out that job before he loses it and all my connections for getting anyone a job are here. I know people, my family knows people.
Not sure much of that made sense, sorry.
As I've said before, my SO works in the Disney World park in Florida. He's been there since late January and he's been pretty mistreated ever since, especially now that it's the summer months and kids are out of school. I barely see him anymore. Earlier today he snuck off to call me (even had to call me back at one point since another manager almost caught him) and was telling me how he spent almost every day wanting to quit, he couldn't relax, he wasn't sleeping, etc.
Ever since work began eating his time and his patience I've wanted to ask him if he would mind my looking for jobs for him here. My city has a lot of employment opportunities right now and with the money I have saved I could help him move out here and maybe even split an apartment with him. Today I really wanted to ask, but I didn't because I'm scared it'd be going too far, or he'd flat out say no.
I know some people help their SOs get to where they are or they work to get to them, but I'm not so sure it's... appropriate? in this case. He's been trying to get me to move out there eventually, he even offered to help me get a job with Disney, but I'm not comfortable with moving when I haven't even started college, I'm on disability and medicare, and I'm easily overwhelmed. I'm afraid he'll react the same way or get mad that I'm suddenly trying to get him to move where I want when he's been trying for months to get me there. Really all I want is to get him out that job before he loses it and all my connections for getting anyone a job are here. I know people, my family knows people.
Not sure much of that made sense, sorry.
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