Mixed feelings

[chef.rae]

Recently I have been missing Steve a lot lately. I do not know why since when we broke up in February we have only talked just a handful of times. I can not stand his inscurities and his anxiety attacks all the time. Especially towards the end when it was several times a day. I have given myself lots of time to heal, and I am over the relationship, if that's what you want to call it. I am out with friends meeting new people and hanging out with guys and just having a good time with my life.


I do not understand why I feel myself missing someone that made me so miserable for a long time.

[Adora]

Its natural to miss someone who was a big part in your life, even if they did make you miserable. I think its just about giving yourself time to adjust to not doing the usual routine things you did with Steve.
Enjoy going out with your friends and having a good time.
One day you'll wake up and not even realise you dont miss him anymore.
Good luck lady

[chef.rae]

I'm over everything that had happened with him and I. I have been on a few dates with a couple guys and that sort of thing, it just strikes me funny that I am all of a sudden thinking about Steve and missing him.

[snow_girl]

Sometimes I think about exes and miss them. But I think its the thought of them I miss because if I actually take the time to think about the relationship, they had nothing I wanted in a partner.

[chef.rae]

Sometimes I think about exes and miss them. But I think its the thought of them I miss because if I actually take the time to think about the relationship, they had nothing I wanted in a partner.

I could not agree more!!!! It just weird that out of the blue he popped in my head. But I can not stand thinking about the relationship at all.

[Courtney:)]

I know how you feel! One of my ex's and I still talk from time to time, and I am by far over him, but sometimes I just think about him! Especially considering his parents and my parents are friends, and I coach a cheerleading team with his mom. So maybe my situation is a little different, but I understand where you're coming from.

[Jgui]

I think it's normal to miss someone whom you shared memories and bonded with.

My mostl recent bf broke my heart and caused me an anxiety attack during the end of out relationship. He dumped me on the day which would've been our 7th month anniversary. It took me a while to get over him and when I finally felt I did, he comes into my life again giving me mixed signals. Needless to say, I was a total wreck. Even though he made me miserable, I couldn't deny the fact I had true feelings for him.

[chef.rae]

It does not help much that we are friends on facebook still and that we both have one anothers numbers. But we hardly ever talk.

[Alemap]

It's normal to feel a bit wistful for the good times, and sad that the relationship had to end; that the good times had to end with the bad.
That's what I feel when I "miss" exes I'm long over - a vague regret for what could have been.
It's pretty normal, and there's nothing wrong with you.
*squeezes your hand*
Be kind to yourself.

P.